Nice In Nice

2009-12-30T06:20:00.000+01:00

As a new decade dawns -- a disputable detail, which until recently escaped me -- we reflect on the many gifts we've enjoyed, especially these last 10 years.

Jody and I remain grateful for our blessed lives, filled with love and people important to us. "Baby Ella" is one of our greatest gifts; a promise that our world will continue and, will continue to improve.

Technology has been both a blessing and a curse. We now text and tweet, rather than talk. We peruse pictures online instead of seeing familiar faces, face-to-face. Should we lose a "connection" we are sometimes at a loss of how to connect with those we need the most.

Without such changes we risk complacency and, perhaps a lack of challenging stimuli. Yet, these are just some of the many innovations that we who are lucky enough to hang around, decade after decade, see and discover.

Life after all, is an avenue of adaptation.

Personally (and, since this is my blog, it is all about ME) such challenges aggravate and humble me. For, without this progress my best hope of sharing these random thoughts would be contingent upon my inability to transform bleached tree trunk into something of interest (come to think of it, despite the ability to receive recent correspondence from outer space, my challenge remains the same).

So here goes.

Between our 14 nieces and nephews and, our multiple "unofficially adopted" international children, we remain hopeful for our future (including, improved human computer interaction). More on the future later, let's look back over the past decade with fondness and, a few fun facts...

The "00's" began with a long list of items necessary for the survival of "Y2K". An embarrassing trip to a "bulk-buying" warehouse (thanks to a dear friend who is a member) found me with a cart full of items, some we still have today (24 hour candle anyone?).

We proudly celebrated 10 years of marriage -- a first for both of us -- with a small gathering of family and friends in Las Vegas. Elvis' surprise appearance all but overshadowed the fact that I had squeezed into my wedding dress. The "King" did provide an excellent photo op for our holiday card.

Toga X was the grand finale of 10 years of gathering sheet-clad, middle-aged folks together to consume Jell-o "shooters". Today there is talk about a 10-year reunion of sorts. However; should that not come to pass at least we have a vintage shooter, framed from circa '95.

Then, we witnessed the birth of the Euro, on site, the greatest "commercial rollout since Christianity". Fortunately, we had already secured another version of Chez Dyer, which remains both a lovely lifestyle and, a worthwhile investment.

As we begin to "summer" in Chez Dyer Duex, "menu" French became my focus and, with Jody's support I embraced my European roots. Not necessarily the star student of Alliance Francaise nor, Roger Verge's school of cooking, my tenacity paid off as I learned to communicate and cook, beyond my wildest dreams.

Of course, a proper French lady is accompanied by a proper French dog. Ditto became a favorite accessory, going with us to restaurants, Church and, sometimes with me to school.

My desire to learn or, live part-time on the French Riviera, continued. And, the International University of Monaco became another attainable goal, one that reaped more than good grades; great friends and a life-long, global network.

During this decade of many blessings, we also felt the pain of loss. Cindy and Pop -- Jody's Mom and Dad -- departed. We still miss them and benefit from their wisdom. One of my favorite examples was Pop's immediate response to my pursuit of an MBA; "you can't go wrong with education".

Such life lessons continue to define my existence and, still serve me well. Whether it be dealing with family and, the many challenges such extensions may bring or, new adventures such as my current business opportunity, I remain grateful to come from a place of abundance.

Speaking of which, this opportunity is a primary reason for my dormant blog. This venture has consumed my days and, sometimes my sleepless nights. Yet, it too is a gift.

When "my other Jody" told me that she shares my daily pain of figuring out what to wear, I was amazed. After all, she's from New York, always fashionable and, has more clothes than many of us put together. She then described a solution and, I knew I had to help create this tool.

With the full support of my "first" Jody, we are looking forward to not only launching this web tool but, also being well dressed for the next decade. A decade we will begin with the celebration of our 20th wedding anniversary on St. Valentine's Day and, Aunt Vee’s 101st birthday shortly thereafter.

Thanks to Ella Amena Marie's attendance, we will have four generations with us to celebrate. And, thanks to my trusty sewing machine, "Grandma Ella" will have a new dress.

May 2010 and, the next decade, be filled with the smile of a child, for such a gift brings much love and hope for all. Happy New Year y'all.

Smiling children; Caroline, Dawn and Louis, circa 1964. Photo by big brother Kjell O. Nelson, III.

Fall into Love

2009-10-11T22:22:00.003+02:00

With a spring in her step, this determined young lady leads us into a new season of joy.

"Princess Ella Amena Marie" -- as are all children -- is our hope for the future, one filled with peace and love.

Many thanks to all parents and, a happy birthday to "Grandpa" Jody.

Dear readers (those faithful who remain after months of limited to no posts)today's schedule no longer allows for daily or, even weekly posts. All is well, just busy and working hard.

Posts will be submitted as they arise. Share your thoughts and, keep in touch.

Madame Dyer

Maryline, True Talent

2009-09-28T09:38:00.000+02:00

Yes, our dear friend's talents have been recognized by the Grammys! Maryline's song; "Jealous Love" (Female Pop Vocal Performance) and, "Hey DJ" (Female R & B Vocal) are both, on the GRAMMY NOMINATING BALLOT!

Check her out:

www.marylineblackburn.com
www.cdbaby.com/all/maryline

(And, on my blog: September 9, 2008). Continue to spread the word on all of your social networks.

La Côté d'Azur

2009-09-10T17:24:00.009+02:00

Like many families, we recently took a summer vacation. It was a pleasure to see friends and classmates. We enjoyed some lovely weather and, too much good food, c'est la vie.

As we wrapped up our trip to "la plage" I noticed this post card. Could it be that someone has turned my discarded hearts (regard mon blog; 4 octobre 2005) into art?

To view more of Pierre's work please see: www.pierre-hugues-polacci.com

National Dog Day

2009-08-26T14:59:00.009+02:00

According to dailymail@holidays.net, today is National Dog Day; "A day for dog owners to recognize and honor their pet friends and to thank them for their loyalty and unconditional love".

So we did by arriving in France today. Known for their love of "les chiens" (the dogs) the French accept dogs almost anywhere. Ditto has already graced the outdoor flower market, the terrace of the cafe next to us (begging and barking, so not French! ) and, a boutique or, two (the Euro is 1.42 to the USD so, guess who will shop her closet?).

For more holiday info, especially since we're on holiday "pendant deux semains" (during two weeks) please see: www.holidays.net. Twittering? Join the Daily Holidays - http://twitter.com/holidaysnet (or follow @holidaysnet).

"Celebutante" Dog/Blog

2009-06-04T03:23:00.011+02:00

A four-legged furry friend, one who splits her time between two Souths -- Atlanta and Nice -- knows she's a lucky world traveler. And, when she is highlighted on one of the world's most celebrated blogs, she knows she's really special!

Check out Ditto's bark of authority on: www.avapierce.com. This blog informs all of us on the subtleties, as well as the rules, of world travel.

Ditto may now take a coach seat, knowing that she arrived on the world stage, via Ava.

Enjoy,

Le chien incroyable

Be certain to check out Ditto's designer snack jar (compliments of Brenden and Ellie, her new best friends) on Ava's rant.

And, for readers who would like to bark with Ditto, feel free to email her at:
Dittodyer@hotmail.com

(Of course, she would have done all of this on her own but, like her Auntie Caroline noticed, she doesn't have thumbs!

Chocolat? Need We Say More?

2009-03-21T14:28:00.006+01:00

We did -- "merci notre amie Elisabeth" -- as we enjoyed The art of tasting chocolate and selecting the perfect accompanying beverage.

"Bonjour Nini, bonjour Ella,

Cela fait longtemps que l'on ne s'est pas vues ! Comment ca va ? Vous avez l'air toutes les deux tres occupees. L'alliance française organise une conference sur le chocolat. Vous etes ok pour me rejoindre? Le sujet de la conference est sympa et ca va etre l'occasion de parler française ...
Dites-moi si vous pouvez venir. "

Chocolate with French friends and wine? As the French "raise the bar" -- sorry, couldn't resist, "comme chocolat"! -- with wine, we enjoyed learning the delicacies of such treats.

Nini et moi avons répondu; Oui, nous serons là et oui, nous adorons le chocolat!!!

Benjamin Desmartins, Chocolatier

In the event you adore chocolate, please see: http://www.comptoircacao.fr/

And, for future French festivities please see: http://www.afatl.com/

A Celebration

2009-02-18T07:01:00.001+01:00

With family and dear friends, we celebrated Valentine's Day and, our 19th wedding anniversary.

This breathtaking view of Lake Blue Ridge is compliments of Edie and Mark's marvelous new home.

And, this view of the next generation moving forward, is compliments of our family, Beth and Rashed. "Baby" Ella is thriving as she propels us into the 21st Century.

Takima, "Trente Ans" and a Treat for All

2009-02-07T18:51:00.001+01:00

We've been planning Takima's 30th for a few months (a la New York, April '08) and here we are, celebrating this talented and self-actualized young lady, whom I've been blessed to know for nearly 10 years (thank you Dezo and ESPN Zone!).

We decided to visit Nice and share her "spoken word" with the locals. But first, we were "upgraded" to first class (the first time that's happened, must be the angelic halo of this lovely lady) on our way to Rome (a short layover, which thankfully, lasted longer than scheduled).

We took the opportunity to see a few sites, including the Coliseum....

And, the surrounding neighborhood where we had a tea before our shuttle back to the airport. As we enjoyed the hospitality of Marco, the kind proprietor who continued to check on our ride, I noticed a beautiful blond and, her handsome husband.....

In the small world category, bumping into newlyweds Mary Michael and Luke, just days after their nuptials, was an amazing moment. I'm sure when I said "Mary Michael" -- on the street near this ancient monument -- she thought her Mom had stowed away on their flight.

Once our day in Italy was done, we made it to Nice. The energy, along with the tram and the thrill of Takima's first European tour, gave way to the glee of this city.

Soon, the birthday babe was making new friends. Faithful readers will recognize G'Man -- classmate extraordinaire -- and Charhnaz, our favorite "avocate", as we begin the festivities at Chez Dyer.

King Wlad gives a thumbs up to Ms. Maryline and her victorious title of Ms. Alaska.

Meanwhile, Dady Mimbo sparks the tunes, once again, as friends enjoy (and, I hope that my thigh-high boots stay in place).

Jewel, you have my heartfelt thanks. Someday I'll meet you and tell you what a gift your daughter is in my life.

Yes, it's been over a month since my last post. And, there is so much more of Takima's talent to share, which I promise I will do within the next few days.

Stay warm and, stay tuned.

And to All ...

2008-12-31T06:00:00.010+01:00

... a good night.

We wrap up this holiday season by wishing all a happy new year.

May 2009 be filled with good health and a renewed sense of what is important; family and friends.

And, may readers return for yet another adventure. This time, Takima's 30th birthday where else but, on the French Riviera.

In Any Language...

2008-12-24T14:30:00.004+01:00

Joyeux Noël et bonne année
God jul och gott nytt år
جمل التهاني بمناسبة الميلاد و حلول السنة الجديدة
Շնորհավոր Ամանոր և Սուրբ Ծնունդ
Sretan bozic i nova godina
Bon Natali e filici annu novu
كریسمس مبارک
Feliz Navidad y Feliz Año Nuevo
Gleðileg jól og farsælt komandi ár
Bones Navidaes y Gayoleru añu nuevu
ལོགསར་ལ་བཀྲ་ཤིས་བདེ་ལེགས་།
Feliz Natal e ano novo feliz
Христос се роди Срећна Нова Година
С Рождеством Христовым и счастливое Новый Год
Un an nou ferici
Vrolijke Kerstmis en gelukkig nieuw jaar
ᖱᒣᖳᒐᒉᑊᖿᒪᔪᖱᖽᐧᒡᒧᐧᖾᒍ
Frohe Weihnachten und glückliches neues Jahr
ᏓᏂᏍᏔᏲᎯᎲ & ᎠᎵᎮᎵᏍᏗ ᎢᏤ ᎤᏕᏘᏴᎠᏌᏗᏒ
С Новым Годом
Natale hilare et annum faustum
Glæd Geol and Gesælig Niw Gear
Среќен Божик и среќна Нова година
Ya'at'eeh Keshmish
З новим роком
Szczęśliwego nowego roku
Sinifesela uKhisimusi oMuhle noNyaka oMusha oNempumelelo
Šťastný nový rok
Srijetna nova godina
Veselé vánoce a šťastný nový rok
ᖁᕕᐊᓱᒡᕕᒻᒥ ᖁᕕᐊᓱᒋᑦ/ ᖁᕕᐊᓱᕝᕕᓯᐅᑦᓯᐊᕆᑦ ᐊᒻᒪ ᕿᑎᙳᒪᕆᒃ
Cpетна нова година
честита нова година
Καλή χρονιά, ευτυχισμένος ο καινούργιος χρόνος
გილოცავთ შობა-ახალ წელს
Χαρούμενα Χριστούγεννα και καλή χρονιά
Sâle no mobârak
Yeni yılınız kutlu olsun
שנה טובה
圣诞快乐新年快乐
メリークリスマスおよび明けましておめでとう
즐거운 성탄 및 새해 복 많이 받으세요
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Thanks to "King" Wlad -- who probably speaks most of these languages -- for the inspiration for this blog.

For more information on a variety of languages (and to correct my spelling) please see: www.omniglot.com/language/phrases

'Tis the Season

2008-12-17T19:13:00.001+01:00

As the holidays draw near, we are thrilled to be home with healthy family and beloved friends (the sunny days are just a bonus).

However, despite the sunshine, the winds were strong and the temperatures were low as I recently walked down Peachtree Street to the Fabulous Fox. Fortunately, I was wearing Aunt Vee's vintage fur, an amazing "swing" styled mink, which kept me warm. I also donned one of her hats to complete my ensemble.

My walk to this historic venue was an event in itself. I was transported back in time to what it must have been like to see elegantly dressed Atlantans attending special performances during the winter season.

On this day, I saw the Nutcracker, a holiday favorite of young and not so young, "comme moi" (like me) alike.

Many readers may know that the Nutcracker, based on the "king of mice" was the work of E.T.A. Hoffman. Although today's performances are "different in detail from the original story, the plot remains the same". It is the tale, like so many, of a young girl dreaming of a prince (hmm, I think I know this story and how it ends, at least in my case!).

Like the Nutcracker, the Fox Theater is different in detail from its origins, which began decades ago. This symbol of Atlanta's architecture and glamour was originally the Yaarab Temple Shrine Mosque in the late 1920's. Since then, it's had a long and lustrous life of great performances. And, was transformed by the efforts of one Dorothy Alexander. She was not only a talented artist, but also a believer in smaller cities' ability to have their own dance company. Thus, in 1929, she began with rehearsals in her garage, which lead to great productions by the Atlanta Ballet at the fabulous Fox Theater.

Today, according to John McFall, Artistic Director, "Atlanta Ballet is one of the nation’s premier professional ballet companies, recognized for the artistry of our dancers and our innovative programming. We are as diverse and provocative as the city we call home".

Who knew (not me!)? Ballet comes from Italy, dating back to 1500. The word is associated with masked ball. It was introduced to France (where I thought it had originated) when Catherine de Medici of Italy married the French King, Henry II.

Unable to attend the performance -- much less fit into her tutu --Ditto snuggles up for the season.

For more information on the Fox Theater please see: http://www.foxtheatre.org

For more information on the Atlanta Ballet please see: http://www.atlantaballet.com

For more information on the Shriners please see: http://www.yaarabshrine.net

Beaujolais Nouveau

2008-12-02T08:05:00.003+01:00

Hosted by the French American Chamber of Commerce, this year's Beaujolais Nouveau Festival made a splash in Atlanta. With its slight hint of banana (although, I failed to detect that flavor, even after three glasses) it proves to be an elegant beverage for any dinner.

Favorite friends, Nini, Pammy, Cindy and Emory, gathered to share the season's release as well as catch up before schedules become too hectic during the busy holidays.

One of Atlanta's most elegant hotels, the InterContinental displayed its charm and beauty as guests mingled throughout the evening.

"Au Pied de Cochon" (something about pigs feet) added to the French feel of the festival. With its outdoor seating (yes, some French folks still need a place "pour allumer une fumée" to light a smoke) and one of Atlanta's mild fall evenings, guests spilled over to the terrace.

A perfect accompaniment to the beaujolais was Gary Land Entertainment. Flanked by French femme fatals, Monique, Claudine and Nini (and one cute waiter) the band enjoyed a brief pause.

For more information on the French-American Chamber of Commerce please see:

www.facc-atlanta.com

For more information on InterContinental Hotels please see: www.InterContinental.com

And, should your holiday celebration call for live music please contact the band directly at garyland@bellsouth.net

Cheers!

Viva Las Vegas!

2008-11-20T13:00:00.002+01:00

It must have been 1964 or 65 when my parents loaded us into the family's Ford Falcon for a short vacation. We then proceeded to drive the six or more hours from our home in the suburbs of Los Angeles to Las Vegas. Ah, those were the days without seat belts much less personal entrainment devices for children(god bless parents!).

I'll never forget approaching the city, which was lit up like a Christmas Tree as we arrived about dawn. Mother had been dieting (something like a bottle of Jacques Bonnet and a tin of caviar daily for a month or more) and fit beautifully into a blue and green brocade dress, cinched at the waist. I had an "up-do" for maybe the first time in my six or seven years.

"Vegas", as my big-brother Kjell and I would refer to it (thus feeling rather grown-up and cool) was the size of a postage stamp compared to the sprawling growth, which has infested it since the early 1990's. I'm sure the "rat pack" wouldn't recognize it, I almost didn't ("c'est la vie", it's the life and that's the price of progress). I don't recall what hotel we stayed in but, I do remember a gentleman bumped into me and included a compliment with his apology "what a beautiful hairdo". Needless to say, I've been a fan of LV ever since.

Taking a cue from previous birthday babes, Meredith donned a tiara to celebrate her 21st.

Armed with two of her aunts, and one of mine, she and her ever supportive Mom (this young lady knows how to travel) enjoyed a luxurious stay at the Venetian, as did the entire party posse. Here, #1 Mom Ms. Kitty, my Auntie Elsa, Aunt Kathy (note to self; always travel with a project manager who can double as a hair stylist!) "et moi" (and me) prepare for a day of shopping, cards, cocktails, more shopping and shows.

We saw Wayne Brady's side-splitting show at the Venetian. For more information on today's master of improvisation please see: http://www.waynebrady.com/

Speaking of shows, don't miss Jersey Boys --Winner of the 2006 Tony Award for Best Musical -- this is the story of Frankie Valli and The Four Seasons. Everyone will know such songs as “Sherry,” “Big Girls Don’t Cry” and “Can’t Take My Eyes Off You”. And, everyone will love the show (come to think of it, my sister Dawn may have been named after one of their songs).

Although our Croatian cab-driver didn't know "King Wlad" he did give the birthday babe a hug.

Never staying too long at the fair we cashed out and came home with a few cents to our name.

For more information on Las Vegas, please see

http://www.lasvegas.com/

Wine lovers stay tuned, tonight is the Beaujolais festival!

America Votes

2008-11-04T09:00:00.001+01:00

ELLA NELSON DYER
Race: W Gender: F
Status: ACTIVE
Registration Date: 09/11/2007
Absentee Ballot Request Information
Election Date: 11/04/2008
Election Type: GENERAL ELECTION
Absentee Request Received: 10/10/2008
Absentee Ballot Issued: 10/10/2008

Absentee Ballot Received: 10/10/2008

As election day begins. Jody and I prepare to walk/roll up the street to our polling place (I simply adore our pedestrian friendly neighborhood!). As you can see from the website of the Secretary of State, I voted early and my vote has been received.

Jody and I may not support the same candidate however, we do support the values upon which America was founded and with that, we enjoy the privilege of casting our votes.

This time tomorrow, we should know the results of this historic election. Whoever "wins" has their work cut out for them. And, no matter which candidate takes office, they will have my support and allegiance.

As will the beliefs, values and laws which are represented by my vote.

Now that this long, sometimes ugly, race is almost behind us, we look to the future. A future I hope will be brighter for "Baby Ella". A future that will have my support as I continue to participate beyond a vote. Future races will have my commitment to volunteer (as I have done in this election) and to qualify as a poll worker.

What a privilege it is to live in America. May we enjoy, respect and protect such a privilege with peaceful efforts worldwide.

For more information on tracking your vote (in Georgia) please see: www.sos.georgia.gov/election

Catching Up or Blogger's Block?

2008-10-18T18:15:00.013+02:00

As the cool breeze flowed from the ceiling fan, I could still see the full moon heading west over the sprawling campus of Georgia Tech. Jet lag works in my favor whenever we return from France. I'm up even earlier than Ditto and feel as though my day starts off in a productive manner. Typically, I work my way through the many emails I've received -- from a multiple of time-zones during the night -- by my second cup of coffee. Of course, I'm not terribly productive by 10:00 PM, barely awake long enough to watch the evening news, but it all works out.

It was a short stride from retrieving our bags to MARTA, which brought us within a block and a half from our building. There we were warmly greeted by Jerry -- one of our wonderful concierges -- who welcomed us back from our summer sojourn.

Since then, we've been rather busy. First, plowing through the piles of mail, kindly collected and delivered to our condo by Anca (another favorite from Cosmopolitan Concierges. Living here is so civilized!). Shortly thereafter we picked up our new Smart car and went for a drive to the North Georgia mountains for a visit with Aunt Vee. Enjoying a sunny afternoon, we retracted the soft top of our cabriolet and ramped the three cylinders to keep up with the flow of traffic on Georgia 400. Aunt Vee rolled out to see the vehicle, which gets up to 41 miles to the gallon, and gave her approval.

Not waiting for the snow to fall, or her first birthday, I dashed even further north for an overdue visit with "Baby" Ella. Enjoying myself immensely and expressing my sincere thanks to my "co-grandma" Marie for generously sharing her family with me, we set plans in motion for January (another 30 below windchill factor?) and a celebration fit for the "Palestinian Princess of Peace".

Then, Jody,Ditto and I drove to DC to reunite with his classmates from Annandale High School. Renewing life-long relationships and meeting new friends, we gathered with more members of our ever extending family. Dinner with the "Hoover Honeys" (photos from an upcoming trip to Las Vegas will prove to be more "interesting"!) followed lunch with three generations of the Botticello bunch. We remain impressed with the accomplishments of the next generation and delighted to meet the newest member of another. Judy, Danny's "betrothed", awaits my "org chart" of introduction to those we love.

As with the newly engaged Rachel and Chris (aka: Boy Scout Boy) we look forward to witnessing the spring nuptials of both couples.

Back in Atlanta, Adaora's Dad made a quick visit gracing us with an afternoon walk, dinner and a warm invitation to visit their homeland. We await, with eager anticipation, upcoming celebrations -- no doubt my dear "daughter" gets this not-so-subtle hint -- of nuptials in Nigeria!

And speaking of celebrations, we were honored to be guests of friends Susan and John as Georgia Tech beat that power house of a team Gardner-Webb. What a way to enjoy Jody's birthday.

Am I caught up? Who knows. Like many of my fellow Americans, I've been glued to the reports of the devastating economical situation as well as the political race.Perhaps my "blogger's block" has subsided and I'll continue my family-friendly, photo-flattering (all about me!) electronic tome. Perhaps I'll pull myself away from the television and the Internet (or, both) no longer neglecting the responsibilities and opportunities of the remainder of 2008.

Yes, we do live in interesting times.

A Farewell with Friends and Food

2008-09-13T06:18:00.004+02:00

As we bid au revoir to Nice, we did so with dear friends and exotic food, Ethiopian to be exact. Wanda -- our "Italian daughter" -- and Berkin (one lucky guy!) took us to Le SOLEIL D'ASMARA, one of their favorite restaurants (and now, one of ours).

The service was as exquisite as the food. Between the four of us, we tried the lamb, fish, chicken and vegetables, all excellent. (Imagine the lack of dirty dishes if we all ate with our hands!)

(Tatiana, get the bleach bottle and the scissors, Mommy needs a new "do"!)

For more information on Le Soleil d'Asmara please see: lesoleildasmara.eresto.net

For more information on Tatiana's talent (you'll see results shortly after our return!) please see: http://www.junkohair.com/

Ms. Alaska also a FED

2008-09-09T03:38:00.004+02:00

As we prepare to return to Atlanta, we're also preparing for the political buzz, which abounds in America. Enjoy this article from our Atlanta Journal-Constitution and stay tuned, this is going to be one heck of a contest!

Smyrna woman beat Palin in pageant
Blackburn won 1984 Miss Alaska contest, in which GOP VP nominee finished second
By DAN CHAPMAN

The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Monday, September 08, 2008

Smyrna’s Maryline Blackburn won the 1984 Miss Alaska beauty pageant. The first runner-up? Sarah Palin, nee Heath – the GOP’s vice-presidential nominee.

“My first impression was, ‘Oh my god, she’s gorgeous, she’ll probably be the one who wins,” Blackburn, a recording artist, recalled Monday afternoon.

Maryline Blackburn, who lives in Smyrna and grew up in Fairbanks, Alaska, won the Miss Alaska contest in 1984, in which Sarah Palin finished second.

(Maryline and Alan as previously seen on the 50+ blog of June 26th, 2008.)

Second impression?

“She had this look about her, this look in her eyes that tells you she’s calculating, figuring out ‘How am I going to win this competition,’ ” Blackburn said. “There was a determination there.”

And that became evident when she tripped you during the evening gown competition?

“No,” Blackburn laughed. “Sarah would never do anything like that. In pageants, there’s pettiness and the little claws come out. But if Sarah was anything like that, she hid it very well.”

Instead, the flute player from small town Wasilla — also voted Miss Congeniality — wrote Blackburn a lovely note on the back of a group photo at pageant’s end: “I do love you. You’re more admired than even you know. And please keep God Number One. He’s got great things for you, baby. Love, Sarah Heath.”

Blackburn, who grew up in Fairbanks, Alaska, and was Alaska’s first African American representative to the Miss America pageant, spoke in between sessions at a Midtown studio. She’s recording her fourth CD. Pop, rock, R&B and gospel are her genres. She has performed with Bob Hope and Peabo Bryson and tours Europe and South America.

Blackburn grew up in Fairbanks but has called metro Atlanta home for 22 years. She had no idea her erstwhile competition had become governor, let alone the veep prospect until her younger brother called her with the news last week.

“I’ve seen bits and pieces of her speech the other night and that look in her eyes is the look I saw 24 years ago – determined,” Blackburn said. “She’s a hellified speaker. She’s definitely polished.”

But is she qualified to be vice president?

“That remains to be seen,” Blackburn said. “There’s not a lot of substance there, from the speech I’ve seen and what I’ve heard and read about who she is and what she’s done. I just don’t know.”

Surely you’ll vote for your ex-nemesis, though, right?

“No,” Blackburn said, “I am in the Obama camp.”

Songs of the South

2008-09-07T05:16:00.001+02:00

Located in La Cannet, Le Château des Artistes, is a seductive retreat from the busy city of Cannes. On this cool summer evening (I know, sounds like an oxymoron for readers in the South, the United States' South that is!) Jody is joined by three French femmes "comme son habitude" (like his habit) Sophie, Laetitia and Sylvie, for a lovely dinner complete with marvelous music. Laetitia, one of our first friends in France, treated us to a delightful dining and entertainment experience. As Sales Manager of Le Château des Artistes she knows how to pamper guests.

Imagine our delight when the music began.

For more information on Le Château des Artistes contact Laetitia at: http://www.chateaudesartistes.com/

Despite my best efforts (and my worst French speaking with Mr. Bonacorso) I was unable to secure a website for KALYPSO, the management company of these two talented singers, Stephan and Laetitia. However, contact "our" Laetitia (for she is the French daughter we never had!) may be able to help.

La Promenade des Anglais

2008-09-05T03:54:00.001+02:00

In Nice, the "walk of the English" takes us along the Mediterranean. Known as the Niçois, the citizens of Nice are familiar with visitors. For centuries, many have considered the city -- the name dating back to the Greek Nikaia, the "City of Victory" -- the premier vacation destination.

Although the English were not the first to vacation in Nice they have continued to live, work and thrive in the city. During the "winter of 1821-22 an unusually sharp frost prohibited more building and there was much unemployment. The English church demonstrated its practicality by raising funds and putting many of the unemployed to work to build a walkway by the sea."

Throughout the city, especially while visiting Monday's antique market, you find artists' interpretations of this famous walkway, lovely ladies strolling along the shoreline shading themselves with hats and parasols.

Nearly two centuries later, visitors still enjoy the "promenade". Gone are the elegant ensembles of fashionable foreigners in fact, some sights shouldn't be seen on the streets. But, the Promenade is always entertaining as some utilize the path to showcase their talents.

And now, a closer look...

For more information on the Promenade des Anglais please see:
http://www.nicetourisme.com

Tourrettes sur Loup

2008-09-02T03:32:00.004+02:00

On our way to dinner in Le Cannet, we found the ancient village of Tourrettes sur Loup. "Quaint" doesn't begin to describe this town with medieval roots. We wound through the rather smooth streets, taking photos down narrow alleyways, which were clearly inhabited.

The church -- something all ancient villages must have -- Saint-Gregoire de Tourrettes dates back to 1312 (as best I can tell by the website, "en français", in French).

Henry Expert, "maitres anciens de la musique francaise" (an old master of French music) and, French poet Jacques Prevert both lived in this village of art and violets.

Speaking of violets, according to the English part of the City's website: "Tourrettes sur Loup is the only place in France where the cultivation of violets is still the sole or pricipal form of culture for about 11 families. Around 1880, the agricultural activity of the village centred mainly round this flower."

For more information on yet another ancient village please see:
http://www.tourrettessurloup.com

In case the city's name sounds familiar, you're right. Georges Gilles de la Tourette, a French physician -- who would be considered a neurologist today -- discovered the syndrome, which bears his name (although, I didn't locate any connection between the village and the doctor).

For more information on Dr. Tourrettes please see: http://tsa-usa.org

People, Places and Trams

2008-08-29T09:53:00.014+02:00

Known for its tolerable temperatures, we live in Nice with open windows, even in the height of summer. Besides the cool breezes filtering through our home, we also hear the daily sounds of the city.

Ditto and I go out each morning to the still damp street, as the workers have just finished sweeping and washing all the walk-ways, including Avenue Jean Medecin. Le Ritz and Kitchena -- just two of the cafes on our street, which are constantly open -- are setting up their sidewalk tables. We hear the clink of glasses as they prepare for yet another busy day.

We also hear, ever so slightly, the sounds of the tram as the operator rings a bell to alert pedestrians of its approach.

Jody and I continue to find reasons to take the tram. Besides its convenience, accessibility and reliability, it also presents the opportunity to listen to the beautiful French language spoken surprisingly slow, as stops are announced.

Take a short ride with us and listen carefully as the next stop, near the opera in old town, is announced.

Classmates in PACA

2008-08-25T06:25:00.008+02:00

PACA refers to the region of Provence-Alps-Còte d'Azur, which includes Cagnes-sur-Mer, the largest suburb of Nice, in the Alpes-Maritimes department. On a recent visit with classmates we enjoyed an apéritif and dîner on the beach of this delightful village.

In addition to the exquisite promenade of the city, the park was recently dedicated to one of its benefactors (also a strong supporter of IUM, the International University of Monaco).

Talent has been drawn to the city by the sea. Famous painters such as Ziem, Derain, Cezanne, Renoir, and Modigliani at one time or another considered it home.

Today, Kelly continues the tradition by calling Cagnes-sur-Mer her home. She propels the likes of the high-tech industry of the region and diligently studies the beautiful language.

While Michael is making his home in Jordan. Exotic? Yes, yet for this former US Navy Nurse, it's just another adventure as he has already lived in both Iraq and Afghanistan (no doubt Monaco was somewhat relaxing for him!).

Kelly and Michael give the class "Mom" a warm welcome to the South of France as they continue to amaze and inspire me with their exciting lives, contributing to globalization and, all things good.

For more information on the lovely village of Cagnes-Sur-Mer please see: http://www.provenceweb.fr/e/alpmarit/cagnes/cagnes.htm

For more information on IUM please see: http://www.monaco.edu

Switzerland

2008-08-19T09:03:00.027+02:00

Whether it be the legend of William Tell -- Switzerland's most famous citizen -- or, the luxury of a ride around Lake Lucerne, this non-European Union country simply fascinates any traveler.

The City of Lucern dates back to 1178 "when an abbot established a lay order at the Kapellkirche (now St Peter’s Chapel) indicating that quite a substantial settlement must have existed in the area". Then about 1220 the Gothard pass, which we drove through en route from France, opened and the growth has continued until today.

This first video shows how well the city copes with the growth while maintaining its history. Note the modern bridge juxtaposed to the wooden one, which dates back nearly 500 years. Although partially destroyed in a recent fire, the Swiss restored the remains to its historic beauty and utility.

Lake Lucerne offers sumptuous view of many mountains. One can only imagine how charming and quaint the hillside houses must be when covered in snow. You may purchase tickets for the "cruise" across the street from the train station and are worth the 35 CHF (roughly 35 USD, wheelchairs are free and Ditto's ticket was reduced to 10 CHF!). Enjoy this video, which may require some Dramamine until I learn how to handle the camera (Adaora, help!).

Even the boat's mechanical parts were pristine and an excellent example of Swiss engineering.

The cable car ride to Mount Pilatus, which overlooks Lucerne and surrounding villages, took us to the top -- well almost -- of this 2000 meter (6561+ feet)mountain.

Of course, there are alternatives to the cable car ride down the mountain.

Like Nice, music is prevalent and gratis in Lucerne. We wound through the streets of the "old" town only to hear "opera man" fill the ancient avenues with his talents.

With hearty hugs we bid the Fauvers farewell and returned to Nice, full of fondue and fun until our next adventure.

À toute à l'heure y'all.

For more information on Lucerne please see: http://switzerland.isyours.com/

For more information on William Tel please see: http://history-switzerland.geschichte-schweiz.ch/william-tell-switzerland-hero.html

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Ditto, le chien incroyable!

2008-08-16T13:54:00.012+02:00

Ditto, the incredible dog shows off some of her tricks for treats. Enjoy!

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"Le Banc de Botticello"

2008-08-11T06:14:00.002+02:00

The Botticello Bench...

Before the work began on the tram, Cindy and Danny would sit for hours in front of our flat and enjoy the sights and sounds of Nice. On this sunny day, Ditto follows suit. The sounds are slightly different as the tram floats by with its occasional bell but, the sights are equally enjoyable (now to help the trees grow a little faster!).

Danny your bench awaits you, come join us.

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In a typical American twist, we're actually going to Lucerne to visit with friends from Atlanta. Yes, our busy lives have not allowed for a simple dinner date in the "ATL" -- as Atlanta is often called -- rather, we're going to enjoy a few days in another country with Susan and Phil.

Lucerne, a lovely lake-side city, is a favorite of ours (as are the Fauvers, favorite friends) so we jumped at the opportunity to rent a car and have an adventure. Last time we were in Lucerne we took the boat ride on the lake. Who knows, we may even see the city's version of "Lurch" again as he bids us "have a nice stay in Lucerne".

On our previous trip Pammy and I laughed at his "Lurch-like" appearance and voice. For readers too young to remember or, those without late-night reruns of American television, Lurch was the lanky and, rather creepy, butler on The Addams' Family, a program from the 1960's.

Enjoy your week, we'll be tasting the treats of yet another country with plenty of blog opportunities to come. Stay tuned.

Easy Travels

2008-08-06T13:17:00.015+02:00

Every afternoon ferries transport travelers to and from the independent island of Corsica and Sardina (I've visited both islands sadly, those pre-blog excursions). Travelers may drive their cars onto the ferry and relax for the voyage only to arrive in Corsica a few hours later. The rocky terrain of this beautiful land calls for a car so be certain to bring yours along.

For more information on the ferries please see: www.sncm.fr

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City Tunes

2008-08-04T01:28:00.000+02:00

Nice is known for its music. Throughout the streets a variety of musicians share their talents for the toss of a few coins. Several city structures provide ample acoustics for an accordion player to fill the air with classic tunes of a by-gone era. Whether you prefer hip-hop or opera, there is simply something for every entertainment taste.

Here, Daniel and dinner guests enchant us with a few tunes including my favorite La Vie en Rose.

And, who knew that Tarik's talents extend beyond beautiful women -- a la the lovely Noelle -- and making women beautiful (a la "esthétique")?

Holy Trinity's gift to all was a classical concert "gratis".

Last month's jazz festival came complete with what I like to call "roving publicity". As the festival plays on each evening, a variety of bands help publicize the event by playing a few tunes during the day.

No doubt my darling Nigerian daughter -- of Muka Flicks fame -- will have a few camera angle pointers for her ol ma!

For all the "haps" in Nice please see: www.nice-coteazur.org

People, Places and Things

2008-08-01T01:26:00.000+02:00

As we await the proper software to upload high-definition video (hoping to "enhance" content so readers and especially subscribers, will enjoy Nice in Nice even more) I am planning to post a semi-regular series of blogs on people, places and things. Perhaps this will be of interest to readers.

Each week I'll try to capture -- in words, photos and video -- something of interest within those three categories.

After years of lengthy "séjours à Nice" (stays in Nice) I risk becoming inured to the sites and sounds of this amazing area. I want to maintain, even increase, my appreciation of one of the most magical places on earth and share it especially with those who may not be able to visit.

So, should you have an idea, question or recommendation for my family-friendly, photo-flattering blog of "Ellaland" (whether it be related to Nice or, Atlanta) do let me know. I'd love to have a writing assignment from a reader.

With your help, my writing may be fecund. Y'all may know that "this adjective denotes a desirable quality of plants and imaginations: the ability to produce abundantly. It has a slight literary ring and in more prosaic contexts, often loses out to its synonyms 'fertile' and 'productive'. Its Latin roots have relations in feminine and fetus. " Personally, I had to visit Visual Thesaurus at: http://www.visualthesaurus.com/ to double check!

PS Happy birthday Daddy, we'll have a swell celebration for your 75th next year!

Woody's

2008-07-28T09:00:00.000+02:00

While meandering the streets of Nice and looking for a bite to eat -- so many choices, so little time -- we came upon an American themed diner. Now, I know what you must be thinking, with all of the fabulous French food around why on earth would we even consider a place which boasts of their burgers?

Well, Jody is known for his "streak-eating" habits. One year while in the position of CEO (chief executive officer) of a publicly-traded company his lunch consisted of an egg-salad sandwich, chocolate eclair and a pack of cinnamon gum, each day, every day for an entire year!

Therefore, it's no wonder that at times we end up at our favorite places on a weekly basis (sushi, pizza, sushi, pizza, you get my drift). At Woody's we had, surprise, pizza. But, both Jody and I agreed that it was by far one of the best pizza's we've ever had, anywhere! My salad was also exquisite and of course "mon verre de vin rosé était merveilleux" (my glass of blush wine was wonderful)!

Now, we have a new place to enjoy, also on a regular basis.

So, when you're in Nice and have a hankering -- whatever that is -- for a hamburger visit Woody's, we may see you there.

Woody's

23, Boulevard Joseph Garnier

06000 Nice

("Près de le gare", close to the train station.)

Since We've Been in "L'Autre Sud"...

2008-07-23T08:35:00.011+02:00

Let's see, what have we been up to since we've been in the "other" south? Well, Ditto and I arrived several days before Jody, "comme notre habitude" (as is our habit) and, we proceeded to catch up with a few friends, enjoy some "R&R" (red and rosé, for me not Ditto although, she has been known to take a "nip") as well as make a meal or two.

Most visitors to our "cuisine" question the clock...time is less important here, especially if we have fresh basil to add to the evening meal.

We watched the fireworks of Bastille Day -- forgive me for being slightly jaded but, after you've had a fireworks show in your honor even those of the 4th and 14th of "Juillet" leave a little to be desired -- then strolled along the Palais du Justice. While sipping a rosé (thanks Johnnie for ensuring the proper price!) we saw sailors from the French Navy who were enjoying their own "R&R". Rachida was quick to remind me of the tradition of rubbing the red pompoms on their caps, which is said to bring good luck.

Although I count myself as one of the luckiest people in the world I proceeded to follow tradition (you know, when in Rome...).

For more information on the French Navy please see: http://www.ecole-navale.fr/

PS A very happy birthday to Richard, our favorite 18 year-old!

Get Your "Abonnement Maintenant"

2008-07-20T08:49:00.011+02:00

Get your subscription now. Yes, you too may join readers world-wide and receive updates of Nice in Nice (thanks to Jody and FeedBurner).

Simply scroll past the archives (more than three years of my "family-friendly, photo-flattering blog") until you reach a small box, which reads "delivered by FeedBurner", and enter your email address. Within a few clicks of the keyboard you will receive my blog via email.

Just think, no more checking in to see if I've posted a new episode of "Ella Land" (as my sister Caroline comically calls my charmed life). So, family, friends and readers world-wide, get your subscription now ("High-Heel Holly", this includes you!).

As Jody, Ditto and I enjoy the rest of our summer on the Côté d'Azur (yes, Caroline is correct!) we'll have plenty to "blog" about. For example, the car that took a left a little too late and collided with the new tram. Fortunately, the police arrived and within minutes traffic was back to normal (and to think, I used to call them the fashion police). Anyway, stay-tuned as we keep you posted on all the fun with more regular blogs, "je promets" (I promise).

Like the French, We Remember

2008-07-14T10:09:00.010+02:00

While the French celebrate the beginning of the Revolution, which took place today in 1789 and on which I've posted several blogs, another commemoration will also take place today.

Nine time-zones away, some of my family -- and many of their friends -- will gather to mark the untimely passing of Ronn, 20 years ago today.

In his short life, he traveled far to spread his sincere sense of spirituality. Gifted with God's love for those he didn't even know, he went to Africa to share his beliefs that all people deserve freedom. While home, in Southern California -- before his next missionary efforts, this time to China -- his earthly life was cut short due to an auto accident, for which he was not responsible.

Maybe it was a higher power's plan to utilize Ronn's spirit elsewhere. For our family, it remains one of the three greatest losses of this generation. Shortly thereafter, we also said goodbye to Cousin Audrey and years later to her brother Walter, Jr.

Or, perhaps Ronn's passing was to pave the way for the others who would follow.

But, as the French recall their fight for freedom -- along with their flag, "le bleu, blanc et rouge drappo", which stands for the Republic's three ideals of Liberty, Equality, and Fraternity -- so do we recall Ronn.

As the youngest of seven Spalione siblings, he stood for spirituality and service to others. May we learn from all of those who set superior examples, whether it be freedom fighters from long ago or, those dedicated to the spread of spirituality. And, may we learn the most from those who have proceeded us, especially those who have left us far too soon.

Ronn, your spirit continues to shine on your family and friends. We miss you but, we have faith that your journey continues and does so with great success.

With all my love and respect,
Your cousin Ella

Disney in "La La Land"

2008-07-12T06:24:00.001+02:00

"La la land", a reference to Los Angeles or, L.A. -- being the land of, Lord, I don't even know what anymore -- was an experience. First, Disneyland is not in my hometown of Los Angeles (not much is but traffic, smog and out-of-site real estate prices, that's another blog). However, my "hometown" does stretch from one valley to the other and is filled with folks I love and admire so semi-regular trips are really a joy (despite the need to drive 500+ miles during the week's visit).

As our first day wore on and, wore me out, the ultra scary Space Mountain was simply over the top. I didn't know whether to cry or wet my pants. Fortunately, Auntie Caroline came to the rescue. I've never been so glad to see my sister as I was that first afternoon "in-charge" at a theme park. Thank you Caroline for your impeccable timing and for all of your assistance (especially loved the great idea of sending souvenirs separately, not sure those "Jedi" whatevers are allowed in carry-on!).

With a little help from our lovely friend Sharon (and the Internet) we stayed near the theme parks and were able to walk to daily fun. On day two Uncle Lou led the way.

Ah, theme parks. What fun when we're kids or, brave adults -- the lines, the scary rides, the junk food -- all in the heat. Together, we spent two glorious (?) days waiting, sometimes 45 minutes, to have the "begeebies" (not sure what they are but, after a few rides we were without 'em!) scared out of us.

At times, the long lines were the perfect place to spend some quality family time together (and to witness my favorite 11 year-old head butting his brother and sister, Nelson, I have that on video!). Note to self: Next visit include in our entourage Misha, the family nurse (to keep us hydrated) a chiropractor to work out the kinks, a Concierge to stand in line for us and perhaps a photographer (well, maybe not, that would require a make-up artist!). Therefore, the saying "the more the merrier" does apply.

We had a lovely visit at the workplace of Ed, my long-time friend, where everyone learned how the LAFD keeps its citizens safe. (Guys, my apologies for not disclosing the fact that the "three young blonds" I was bringing didn't include Pammy and the others from 10 years ago. Y'all are good sports).

Thanks again to Auntie Caroline our trip included the much appreciated educational outing of the Griffith Park Observatory. There we learned about the universe and enjoyed a view of the Hollywood Sign.

Breakfast at Tiffany's? No, we prefer the Hotel Bel Air! Before another fun-filled day we met up with Auntie Carol, Cousin Jeffry and of course, Uncle Louis (he does know how to dine!) for an exquisite breakfast beneath the canopy of the flower filled gardens of the luxurious Hotel Bel Air. Carol, Lou and I were very interested in the "Liz Fizz" -- a most refreshing beverage -- while the next generation was curious about the coins in the fountain of this famous hotel.

Throughout our time together, I was mesmerized (or perhaps just very fatigued!) by the "deja vu" of my cotton-top charges. Growing up, as the most "brunette" of several family members, I was often in charge of the most blond-haired, blue-eyed siblings; Louis, Caroline and Dawn. During this family trip (as cousin Kim so accurately distinguished "it's a trip, not a vacation") I found myself transported back nearly four decades. That was another time when I was also looking out for the "pigment impaired" members of my family (too bad we didn't have spray-on sunblock then) in the water, helping Mother make sure that we were all together.

Our trip made me want to call Mother, which I did, and thank her for all the times she took us to the beach, packing the station wagon with snacks for the day and watching us as we played in the surf. Despite Dixie Lee, like me, not being the most confident swimmer in the world (although we both look good sitting on the sand) she schlepped us, sometimes weekly, to the shores of Southern California for a fun filled day in the sun.

With the help of Cousin Jeffrey -- kids, don't make him take out his sheriff's badge -- and, sustenance of Jody Maroni's, I was less exhausted counting heads in the waves of Venice beach.

At last, our visit with family and friends came to a close. Thanks to the Luxe Hotel it was a very comfortable couple of days after all the fun.

Ella, you've just survived Disneyland...what are you going to do now?

Sit in the sun and sip some rose in the South of France!

God bless parents.

For more information on California's theme parks please see: www.disney.com

For more information on the Griffith Park Observatory please see: www.griffithobs.org

For more information on breakfast at the Bel Air Hotel please see: www.hotelbelair.com

For more information on Venice beach please see: www.venicebeach.com

For more information on Jody Maroni please see: www.jodymaroni.com

For more information on the Luxe Hotel please see: www.luxehotels.com

50 +

2008-06-26T08:07:00.012+02:00

With good deeds done, it was time to party.

Rachida -- fun friend from France -- and Jeffri were ready.

Susanna and Elsa -- some favorite family members -- discuss the many events they've enjoyed together with the "Clampits".

Sony and Emory, always ready to lend their soiree support.

Bill and Lorene, lovebirds extraordinaire, joined us from Memphis.

"Bubba" and Barry, thanks for being parents, conservationists, philanthropists, party photogs and just plain accepting of all.

Two of the three generations of Botticellos in attendance, posed for the photogs.

The McKendrees, more family, enjoy the food and fun.

Edie and Debi -- founder of Wally's Angels, a philanthropic group of friends -- never miss an opportunity to party or, to help those in need.

Friends and former neighbors, the Abbotts, join the fun (too bad we didn't write blogs during the toga party days!).

Mrs. & Mr. Mary Susie, my first friends in Atlanta.

"Those Dyers", with a few of our "international kids", Adaora (from Nigeria) Rashed (from Palestine) and Tatiana (from Russian). Yes, holidays at our house can resemble a meeting at the United Nations!

"Mom" receives birthday "bisous" from two of her kids....

Cindy, Honey, Donna, Claudine, Nioshii and Nini -- represent beauty and brains. Their talents, include engineering, make-up artistry, mosaic artistry, law and nursing skills. Now, those are some pretty party people.

Even Ditto had on a new party outfit.

Pammy recruited nephew Josh for party assistance.

Caroline, Daddy and Dawn joined us from California and Texas to enjoy the family fun. Thanks y'all!

Roger, Sharon and Honey sample the food and drinks while enjoying the fun.

Dawn explains the dance moves....

While Rachida explains the French "way" (of something?) to Richard.

Kyle and Jenni -- some of Atlanta's best dancers -- looked on the fun.

Doing good deeds and dancing the night away...

Rachida and Ms. Pat continue the moves on the dance floor...

while Alan and Maryline cut the rug with a few signature Latin moves...

and Ken and I started the conga line.

Don, Danny and Ray smiled for the party paparazzi.

Hannah's helping hands made the party perfect.

Pammy and "Marky Mark" pulled it off again. Thanks y'all for all of your help.

And of course, thanks to Jody, my "superstar spouse" for everything.

"Ella, you've just turned 50, what are you going to do now?"

I'm going to Disneyland!

Stay tuned for even more fun from "La La Land".

The FEDs Did 50

2008-06-20T08:00:00.006+02:00

As 50 loomed I realized that I had an opportunity to ask those closest to me for something special, something I really wanted. Leave it to my family and friends -- also known as the FEDs -- to help me make a difference in our world (off course, they already do so by just being FEDs i.e., family and, or friends of Ella Dyer).

By requesting 50 "good deeds", random acts of kindness and, or volunteer efforts/donations, the FEDs spent the 50 days leading up to my 50th contributing their resources in some amazing and moving ways. Some of their efforts -- and the fortunate recipients -- are listed below. Read, enjoy and by all means, be inspired, as the FEDs continue to motivate me.

"Jeffri and Ella, I wanted to thank everyone for volunteering at this year's Uncork A Cure!! I heard numerous times that this year's event was even better than the last, and it could not have been done without your help. I hope that each of you had enough time to enjoy the event as well. Thanks again, and I hope that you will remember ARCA again this time next year. "

Sincerest thanks,
Faith Knight Myers
Volunteer Chair
http://www.aidsresearchatlanta.org/

Nini, Pammy and I spent an enjoyable afternoon helping at headquarters.
http://www.atlantacommunityfoodbank.org/

"I make sure and tell the ones I love that I love them, helped a friend move, helped a stranded woman on Hwy. 120, write all my thank you notes to those whom have helped me and my family. Offered to help my senior neighbor at the grocery store. Help my children feel loved more and to continue to think of others". Honey, Hannah, Evan and Jimbo. (Honey, your good deed was my make-up!)

Thanks Peggy, see you in Nice. http://www.ifrc.org/
Soles 4 Souls -- Merci mon amie Nioshii! http://www.sole4souls.org/
Love birds Lorene and Bill: St. Jude's Children's Research Hospital in Memphis, TN http://www.stjude.org/

"...coordinated a Bone Marrow Registry Drive at work." Hugs and Kisses to Ella and Jody (and love and licks to Ditto:-) Xoxo, Gabi". http://www.marrow.org/

"ABSOLUTELY...HOW COULD I MISS THIS BIRTHDAY EXTRAVAGANZA..DOING GOOD DEEDS LIKE CRAZY...GIVING LIKE IT HAS BEEN GIVEN TO ME...HOW COULD I NOT...THANKS TO EVERYONE'S EFFORTS...MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT" Ms. Pat.

"Luv your good deed idea indeed. Here's what activity was (and I'll keep this going in perpetuity--it's kinda fun):
- Instead of using Easy Pass on toll roads, use the cash lanes
- pay my toll as well as the toll for the car behind me
- wonder how this small, token (no pun intended) gesture changes a random stranger's day". Cathleen

"I told the kids that if they gave me anything for Mother’s day I would bite THEM!!! (Even without Ditto). But, they are to send any amount of money they would spend on me to the migrant workers’ children at the Beth-El Farmworkers’ Ministry," Carol. http://www.beth-el.info/

Susan: "260 hours of good deeds..."

Donna and Brian, wow! You two sure know how to help others:

Stars of Hope :http://www.starsofhope.org/

Compassion International: http://www.compassion.com/

Georgia Firefighters Burn Foundation:http://www.gfbf.org/

Atlanta Ballet:http://www.atlantaballet.com/

Angel Flight: http://www.angelflight.ga.org/

Special Olympics: http://www.specialolympics.org/

Toys for Tots:http://www.toysfortots.org/

Then, you continued with...

"Saved an acre of rain forest in Costa Rica, gave a cereal bar to a homeless person, helped stray dog find owner, shoes for children in Iraq, took friend's dog to the vet, gave a $1.00 to a homeless person, held door open for Mr. cobb, held door open for random person, received "Good Citizen Award. gave to my church and the boys and Girls Club of america. Fed a stray cat, stood up for someone else, brought teacher an apple and some candy, planted a tree for Mrs. Linda, gave advice to Andrew, read to a little boy, brought icream to friends Connor and Tommy when they were sick, helped an ant by getting back to the colony. Gave flowers to a friend, took care of a blind dog, helped a friend unpack from a move, can food drive, volunteered to help teacher with school play wrote a letter to a solider in iraq, helped my friend Jimbo when his dad died. Follow my mom's advice to "Give first, Save next and Live off the rest."

"Flygirl" Lynn shares her motto "thoughts become things...choose the good ones".

From Bubba; another great site for saving trees: http://www.catalogchoice.org/
Samaritan's Purse -- Thanks Melba, see you in Nice! http://www.samaritanspurse.org/ Paulette and Matt, y'all are too sweet: http://www.houserabbitga.org/
Merci Gloria: http://www.les-amis-bf.org.uk/

Maryline and Alan of C'Quinz Entertainment: Children's Healthcare of Atlanta http://www.choa.org/

Katina and Calvin, Carol Nelson and Jeffrey Elias: http://www.aidatlanta.org/

Vivian and "son" Andrew at a fundraiser for Walton High School http://www.relayforlife.org/

Sue, a friend from Kennesaw State University shared her efforts:

"We double tipped our servers while on vacation in Mexico. And at the airport on our way home, Bob was determined to give an airport cleaning person our Mexican currency. An older man was very grateful to receive the surprise cash.

I sent many of the women I know a Happy Mother’s Day greeting email even if they didn’t have kids, but I know they have a mother’s heart and spirit.

I asked some women I know to write a letter as encouragement to a Romanian women; “From My Heart To Yours”. One of the things added to our mission trip this year is a special evening of fellowship with about 300 Romanian women. Each woman will receive a letter of encouragement in their gift bag. I was amazed how the women embraced the idea and asked their women friends too. It’s way cool. Would you like to write a letter? We share a bit about our family, a scripture and why it has meaning to us.

On Sunday before coming to your party, I gave a woman in line ahead of me at Macys a coupon for $15.00 off her purchase. She wore a scarf and obviously was of very different culture. She thanked me again and again. "

Michelle and I volunteered at the Nader Parman II Memorial Run. http://www.naderparman.org/

"Here’s our good deed Ella. Her name is Mazie, but we may change it since we already have a Daisy. A little history on our new baby . . . her first mommy died of cancer. She went to a rescue where she was attacked and lost her eye. She was with her most current foster mom for four months until yesterday when she became part of the Norris brood", Jenni & Kyle.

"Since April is Autism Awareness Month, my idea is to start a 'Change Drive' to benefit the Surfers Healing Camp for Autistic Children in California, and present the proceeds to them when they come to Folly Beach in August. We will collect change or other donations at each contest until the Governor's Cup." Tara http://www.surfershealing.com/

Tara, The idea about the "50 acts of kindness" really inspired me and I thought it was such a great idea, that I'm going to do something too! It's called the Hurricane Poster Project for Hurricane Katrina. If my poster is chosen the donated poster will be sold online, and all profits will go directly to the Red Cross. http://www.thehurricaneposterproject.com/

In addition, the FEDs acknowledged:

http://www.jlatlanta.org/
http://www.projectadventurekids.org/
http://www.walknowforautism.org/
http://www.worldwildlife.org/

ELLABRATION
"Finder of friends, you draw people to you
Finder of friends, like nectar for the bees
Wherever you go in your own native land
Or far, far away across the wide seas
You lift people up, whenever you find them
Your spirit is strong, your energy high
When you find need, you help when you can
You give wings to your husband with a kiss or a sigh
Finder of friends, you found your own son
Like Bithia, your care turned to sharing and love
When he found his wife, they gave you a grandchild
She carries your name and is sweet as a dove
Finder of friends, we send our love to you
We hope you enjoy this celebration day
As all of the caring and love that you’ve given
Returns to you now in every way".

With our very best wishes,Wayne & Cathy Hamilton http://www.waynehamilton.com/

And, here is the greatest effort that anyone could donate, share or give the world, a child. Especially one that is loved and cared for and who will learn from her parents -- as "baby" Ella will from Beth and Rashed -- all the skills necessary to make this world a better place!

My heartfelt thanks to Jody -- my "superstar spouse"-- and everyone who participated in my celebration. Whether you were here in spirit or simply sent well wishes my way, your enthusiasm, efforts and excitement moved me. I will continue to reflect upon your kindness and friendship "pendant les cinquante années à venir" (during the 50 years to come)!

And, in the event that my "menopause/martini memory" overlooked someone's good deed, please pardon "Grandma Ella".

Bravo Boy Scout Boy!

2008-06-15T09:00:00.003+02:00

With a peck on the cheek...

and a pop of some bubbly...

three generations celebrated Chris' graduation from the University of North Carolina.

Bravo "Boy Scout Boy"! We are so proud of you and appreciated the opportunity to gather together as a family.

Enjoy your time on the Appalachian Trail and we'll catch up with you in October, perhaps for your 23rd birthday.

For more information on the University of North Carolina please see: http://www.northcarolina.edu/

For more information on the adventures of Chris on the trail please see:
http://trailjournals.com/ search on Carolina Chris. For notes from Chris' companions Andrew and Champ -- hiking dog extraordinaire -- search on snakeEyes.

For more information on the Appalachian Trail please see: http://www.appalachiantrail.org/

The Four "F"s of "SATC"

2008-06-12T08:01:00.003+02:00

This summer gal pals everywhere are putting on their high heels, sipping some cosmos and going to see "the" movie, Sex and the City.

Thanks to the sassy Souris sisters, a group gathered at Garrison's to enjoy each other's company and the film, which highlights the four "f's":

Friends

Fashion

Fullfillment

Forgiveness

For more information on Garrison's please see:http://www.garrisonsatlanta.com/

For more information on Sex and the City (rated R) please see: http://www.sexandthecitymovie.com/

Photo by "Flygirl".

Hit It!

2008-06-01T16:35:00.011+02:00

Once we'd gathered outside the clubhouse, Jody handed me a small eletronic device, instructed me to press the button and with the words "hit it" the skyline of Atlanta was lit for all to see and enjoy.

Nothing like starting 50 with a bang. Thanks Babe!

Elegant Ladies' Hat Luncheon

2008-05-23T18:00:00.011+02:00

Recently, I joined some of Atlanta's most elegant, and philanthropic, ladies for a lovely event, which raises funds, and awareness, for Beauty Becomes You. This nonprofit aesthetic health initiative "embraces a holistic approach to addressing senior hygiene needs".

On a sunny spring day we lunched at the historic Swan Coach House. With our charming "chapeaus" and some frilly frocks, we felt like the community minded leaders who established the Forward Arts Foundation decades earlier.

Lunch -- the "signature chicken salad... served with our famous creamy frozen fruit salad and cheese straws" and topped off with the "Silk Swan Dessert" -- was served in the Belle Nita Room...

with shopping in Jane's Garden. The guest speaker was Darlene Ford Woffard -- also known as The Spirited Southerner -- who inspired us with ~ The W.I.L.L. Power of Women ~.

Alison O'Neil -- whose business is beauty and personifies the best of southern women -- encouraged us all to continue our efforts in support of this worthy cause.

For more information on Beauty Becomes You please see: http://www.beautybecomesyou.org/video/11-alive.htm

For more information on the Swan Coach House please see:
http://swancoachhouse.com/

For more information on Darlene Ford Woffard please see: http://http//www.thespiritedsoutherner.com/

Happy birthday Christina Monique, one of the most elegant young ladies I know. Speaking of birthdays...stay tuned for "notes" from my big 50!

Fun With the Fuchs Family

2008-05-12T08:00:00.003+02:00

On a sunny spring day, Rich surveys the lovely lake looking for the family boat...

Is that Lucy Lou in the driver's seat? No wonder Rich remained on the dock.

Ditto -- no doubt one of only a few pups to have travelled via planes, trains, automobiles and now a boat -- enjoyed the view of the beautiful lake.

With Emma in the driver's seat, Rich and the others roll along one of the most serene settings in Alabama. Thanks y'all for a delightful and relaxing -- not to mention much needed -- time at your wonderful home. Let us return the favor sometime soon, in Nice.

For more information on Lake Wedowee please see: http://www.lakewedowee.info/

Phya Inc.

2008-05-07T08:09:00.006+02:00

As promised...

Nearly eight years ago, this intelligent and talented young lady came into my life. Despite her youth, it was obvious that this very street-smart beauty would touch the lives of many, just as she has mine.

On her own for too many years, she has never wavered in her pursuit of reaching her fullest potential. Despite the lack of a strong structure in her family life, she has held true to the values she set for herself. Recently graduating from college, she is working within corporate America while exploring her ability to motivate and entertain all with her "spoken word".

This poet, this accomplished young lady, this fine example of what a person may achieve with hard work (and a sensational smile) is an inspiration to me and anyone who meets her.

Fortunately, many of the "FEDs" -- family and friends of little ol' me -- will meet her later this month. Thank you Takima for the gift of you.

Enjoy!

New York, New York

2008-05-02T10:00:00.000+02:00

With a view of Ellis Island, we descended upon New York -- a city so nice "they named it twice" -- for a long and varied weekend.

Pam -- world traveller extraordinaire -- and I arrive at Nini's "upper east side" flat ready for fun.

During the 19 years I've know the newlywed Mrs. Keating, she remains a renaissance woman. Whether it be painting, fulfilling her duties as a hospital nurse or, fixing something a la "McGiver", Nini gets the job done, all the while looking fabulous!

Spring arrived in New York along with the "Talbot's Trio", as we came to be known.

Meandering throughout various neighborhoods we enjoyed some sites only seen in NYC.

Our hearts were heavy as we viewed "Ground Zero", still under construction but, making progress.

While on foot around the city, we visited many fire stations. Sadly, this one lost all but two crew members on 9/11.

Now, you may be wondering how the Pope knew that we would be in town... Seriously, we watched in awe as his Holiness was greeted by tens of thousands of well organized on-lookers. Bravo to the powers to be of the "Big Apple".

Whether it be paying our respects to New York,enjoying a "beverage" (or, 12!) seeing the Pope or catching some local talent, a good time was enjoyed by all. Here, we enjoyed Takima -- one of my favorite human beings on earth -- as she performed her poetry.

Stay tuned, as the next blog will be Takima's talent...here comes Phya Inc.!

The Georgia Tech Trolley

2008-04-27T16:31:00.007+02:00

One of the most positive aspects of life in "Midtown" is the available public transportation. Whether it be MARTA (the Metro Atlanta Rapid Transportation Authority) or the Georgia Tech Trolley -- not to mention the ability to simply walk to various restaurants and shops -- our carbon footprint is shrinking as we enjoy our new "'hood".

For more information on MARTA please see: http://www.itsmarta.com/
For more information on the GT Trolley please see: http://www.parking.gatech.edu/

And, for another view of the Trolley track please see:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NzNKKrYHqY

Special thanks to Danielle Fuchs, grad student extraordinaire, for explaining the "M" in M Train to us (the ol' geezers that we are).

Dear Readers,

Thank you for your interest in my blog. Receiving your requests for new posts is encouraging and makes me smile. Stay tuned for more family friendly, photo flattering blogs notably, New York!

The Night the Lights (and my blog!) Went Out...

2008-04-12T17:32:00.009+02:00

Dear Readers,

As Allen Thornell of Talking Heads Media, Inc. ("A voice for worthy causes") so eloquently put..."It was the night the lights went out in Georgia. As Atlanta gave Earth Hour a big Southern welcome, the city's skyline slowly dimmed, turning previous-shinning beacons into symbols for a greater cause..."

Unbeknownst to me, it was also the last post I would make before inadvertently "deleting" my nearly three year-old blog!

Whether it be my menopause/martini memory or a slip of the keyboard, readers were kind enough to check with me -- via phone and email -- to let me know they were missing my musings. Fortunate for me, Jody, spouse extraordinaire and relentless site searcher, retrieved my entire work. "Honey, it's there, somewhere..." his 30+ years of computer programming assured me.

So, for nearly two weeks, I basked in the less than flattering light of being a techno "do-do head" (not a coined term but, one that would describe how I felt upon realizing my error!) while Jody persevered.

As Allen thanks the city of Atlanta for "making possible a truly memorable evening", I thank Jody for making possible the "fix" of a truly disastrous delete.

Allen went on to say "Even though 'Earth Hour' was celebrated in more than 400 cities around the world, Atlanta had a unique role representing the Eastern Time Zone, along with the other U.S. flagship cities, Chicago, Phoenix and San Francisco.Landmarks from our skyline, including more than 400 buildings throughout metro Atlanta, joined the Golden Gate Bridge, Niagara Falls, the Sears Tower, the Coliseum in Rome and the Sydney Opera House in the first worldwide "lights out" event in history, and our city received widespread global recognition on CNN, ABC, CBS, NBC and in hundreds of other media outlets. We couldn't have been so successful without your assistance".

And, I couldn't have been sharing this without Jody's assistance. Thanks babe!

For more information on Talking Heads Media please see: http://www.talkingheadsmedia.com/

Photos by: Creaxion

Earth Hour -- 60 Minutes of Respect and More

2008-03-28T08:52:00.006+01:00

With the question "How can we inspire people to take action on climate change?" came the answer, "ask the people of Sydney, Australia to turn off their lights for one hour".

So, on 31 March 2007, "2.2 million people and 2100 Sydney businesses turned off their lights for one hour - Earth Hour". The results -- and respect for the planet -- were amazing.

This year, Earth Hour 2008 -- an event created by the World Wildlife Fund (WWF) -- will be joined by many major metropolitan cities across America and around the world.

We in Midtown Atlanta are doing our part. During our Second Annual Condo Crawl (a delightful evening of visiting neighbors' homes and getting to know each other) we'll participate by turning off lights and other electrical appliances (should make serving hot food fun).

Needless to say, we'll be calculating our carbon footprint and blogging on the results.

For more information on Earth Hour, and how you can participate, please see:

http://www.earthour.org

For more information on the World Wildlife Fund please see:

http://www.worldwildlife.org

Additionally, please see:

http://youtube.com/user/Earthhour2008

http://www.flickr.com/groups/earthhour/

http://www.myspace.com/earthhour

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Earth-Hour/6867084435

March Madness

2008-03-21T10:15:00.000+01:00

Another treat during my recent trip to Nice was visiting with friends from the International University of Monaco (IUM), Holy Trinity Anglican Church and Les Petites Soeurs des Pauvres. With less than two weeks to see everyone, my days were full and fun with one afternoon proving to be particularly pleasant.

Jenni, the vivacious Valedictorian of the MBA class of 2007, Gaurav (aka: G'Man) and Hannah, one smart and statuesque Scandinavian, popped in for a drink and a dial.

Between "beverages" -- and thanks to Vonage -- we were able to speak with a few fellow classmates and leave messages for others. Surprising Wesam in Egypt, Eric in Denmark and Joan in England we were thrilled to hear their voices.

Of course, we wanted to speak with all of our classmates and only managed to leave messages in Sweden and America. However, we're working on an informal reunion of sorts, later this summer on the Riviera, so stay tuned.

For more information on Vonage please see: www.vonage.com

Le Tram

2008-03-09T16:15:00.018+01:00

Needless to say, one of the most exciting things about returning to Nice was to see, and use, the tramway. Finally completed last fall -- after nearly four years of construction -- the first "ligne" (line) runs along our street.

The smooth as silk ride is completely wheelchair accessible and offers comfortable transportation throughout most of the city (even bringing weary party-goers home from late nights in Vieux Nice).

With such stunning publicity as our dear friend Didier giving the tram a "thumbs up", Nice's newest form of public transportation is a sure winner.

And, at only one euro -- 1.50+ USD! -- the tram is one of the hottest tickets in town.

For more information on the Nice tramway please see:
www.tramway-nice.org
For more information on the very talented "Italian son we never had", please see: www.gypsyqueens.com, www.saleya.info or, some of my previous blogs.

That Explains It!

2008-03-05T09:00:00.000+01:00

Recently, Jody and I submitted our DNA* (a painless, easy task) in order to be part of a worldwide search for the origins of mankind. We know that Jody's immediate family came from England, one only has to look at his fair skin and pale blue eyes to see the evidence. And, we have the wonderful work of his late Aunt Glanca, Daniel R. Dyer's Progeny, to confirm their origins back to 1806. It is clear that Jody's DNA has a strong gene pool for today is Aunt Vee's 99th birthday. Happy birthday Aunt Vee!

The Nielssons -- as Grandpa Kjell's last name was spelled before "Americanizing" it upon his arrival at Ellis Island, early in the 20th Century -- on the other hand, are a rather sketchy bunch (even today). Due to the efforts of my late Grandmother Ella, we know a bit about both sides of my Swedish family. However, my late Grandmother Ann left few clues and sadly, I never met my grandfather, her husband of French origins.

But, thanks to National Geographic, IBM and modern technology, we can go way, way back. To the point that we may finally realize that in some way, we're all related to one another, we're all part of the same global "family", which may finally reunite, thanks to technology.

I am one of the "Haplogroup: H -16519C" group and the following is only part of the result of my DNA (tedious to read but, there is one extremely interesting point in bold below so, feel free to skip on down):

"The monophyletic sub-haplogroups of Hg H provides means for further progress in the understanding of the (pre) historic movements of women in Eurasia and for the understanding of the present-day genetic diversity of western Eurasians in general".

HVR1 Haplogroup H Approx 32% of ftDNA mtDNA database is Haplogroup H ("comme moi", like me).

"Your low resolution (HVR1) Haplogroup and mutations relative to the Cambridge Reference Sequence (CRS) are given below. A value of CRS indicates no mutations. High resolution (HVR2) results are shown if we have them for you. "

HVR1 Haplogroup H
HVR1 Mutations 16519C
Haplogroup: Helena C
Percentage of Europeans: 47%
Years before present: 20,000

Origin: South France

That explains the overwhelming feeling I have experienced from time to time that perhaps some part of me has lived in Nice before!

My DNA continues with:

"High Resolution mtDNA** (HVR2) Matches, Updated: Sunday, 22 May 2005."

"Furthest back Female Ancestor Information:

Haplogroup Helena – Helena's descendants are the most numerous in Europe, having started 20,000 years ago from a hunting family in the Dordogne region of southwest France. After the Ice Age her clan moved north, reaching Britain about 12,000 years ago. From Bennett Greenspan, President, Family Tree DNA, www.FamilyTreeDNA.com to John D-H

Approximately 32% of our mtDNA database is Haplogroup H.Of H, approximately 21% of H is 519C, yes, or 97 specific H motifs, 519C comprises 21%.Of the 21% of H, 519C the largest subgroup is the one that you are part of.

Professor Sykes and, Oxford University researchers in England, has identified seven ancestral matriarchal groups from which all Europeans appear to be descended. Every European can trace his or her evolutionary history back to the seven ancestral mother groups, also referred to as the Seven European Daughters of Eve. Sykes et al, obtained buccal cells from 6,000 individuals and analyzed the samples using the mitochondrial DNA (mtDNA) analysis.

It is known that mtDNA mutates at a very slow rate, such as 1 mutation in every 10,000 years. So they figured that the women would have lived between 8,000 and 45,000 years ago. What is amazing is that all seven of the genetic groups appear to be descended from the Lara clan, one of three clans that still exist today in Africa. This is called the African Eve theory. It was proposed in the late 1980's by Allan Wilson, Mark Stoneking and others. The African Eve theory states that all humans share a common African ancestor. "

The Seven European Daughters of Eve matriarchal groups correspond to Dr. Wallace's lineages above, and were given names by Professor Sykes:

Helena: This clan lived in the ice-capped Pyrenees. As the climate warmed, Helena’s descendants trekked northward to what is now England, some 12,000 years ago. Members of this group are now present in all European countries. (She lived at the mouth of the River Rhone 20,000 years ago, was the clan mother of 47% of modern Europeans. http://freepages.family.rootsweb.com/~crrking/mills/mills_dnam.htm".

And, as I return to Nice (for a brief visit) after nearly nine months -- my longest departure in over a decade -- I will do so with a greater appreciation for my "ancestral" homeland, which resonates worldwide.

*Deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA) according to Wikipedia, is a "nucleic acid that contains the genetic instructions used in the development and functioning of all known living organisms".

**mtDNA Mitochondrial DNA (mtDNA) is the DNA located in organelles called mitochondria. Most other DNA present in eukaryotic organisms is found in the cell nucleus.

For more information please see:

www.nationalgeographic.com/genographic

www.roperld.com

www.oxfordancestors.com/maternal-ancestry

Like Jody, Nostradamus was Smart

2008-02-10T19:02:00.000+01:00

On a warm day last fall, Jody had a bright idea, lunch with Mark -- family man, friend, dentist extraordinaire -- and then, a drive to a nearby shopping center.

When the American "smart" tour, came to Atlanta -- the display, which included details of the sturdy frame, gas mileage, etc. -- we already knew that this was a car for us.

Several years ago, sometime in 2004 "b.d." (before Ditto) Jody and I packed a couple of bags, rented a car in Nice and headed to Aix en Provence, Nimes and Salon de Provence, home to Nostradamus, the French "prophet".

Our rented Smart preformed well on the fast roads of France and, especially when finding those rare parking places. In fact, Smart solves the challenge of parallel parking by fulfilling the concept of perpendicular parking (note: Nostradamus' influence on our grasp of geometry).

Just a few of the important features include safety for both us and the environment. According to SmartUSA's website: "...The safety cell is made from steel, half of which is high-strength material, especially in highly stressed areas. The cell is designed to keep occupants protected. The reinforced steel and the design of the car allow for the displacement of impact and redistribution of crash energy."

"...also classified as an Ultra-Low Emission Vehicle (ULEV) on account of its extremely low exhaust emissions. The catalytic converter is positioned close to the engine for a quick response. An electric pump blows fresh air into the exhaust port when the engine is cold to almost completely oxidize the carbon monoxide (CO) and hydrocarbons (HC) and render them harmless."

And, the "fortwo" has 8 cubic feet of storage, plenty for me, Jody and Ditto.

At over six-feet tall, Mark agrees that with its spacious interior and smooth ride the Smart has the necessary leg room and comfort for someone his size. And, upon closer examination, it turns out that on that bright spring day in Provence, perhaps Nostradamus "predicted" that this would be a smart idea...even in America.

For more information -- and to reserve your Smart -- please visit: www.smartusa.com
For more information on Aix en Provence please see: www.aixenprovencetourism.com
For more information on Nimes, France please see: http://france-for-visitors.com/languedoc/nimes.
For more information on Nostradamus please see: www.nostradamususa.com

My First "Grandchild"

2008-01-23T16:17:00.000+01:00

"You're going to be a grandma!" Rashed, the first son "we never had" said to me -- as I held the phone, and a cocktail -- that Friday night last May. It was music to my ears. The clock had just struck midnight, my classmates from IUM were in the other room and we were all ready to celebrate the weekend as well as my birthday. Now, I had another reason to look forward to the future.

Then, a few weeks later, just before graduation, I received this sweet e-mail...

"Hi Ella,

Congratulations! We are so proud of you!!!!! Your next big challenge is grandma (January 6th is not that far off!!:) ) We wish that we could be there to spend this special day with you and Jody and of course Ditto!...Congrats!!

Love You!

Beth & Rashed"

Within a few months my phone rang yet again, this time in Atlanta. The happy parents-to-be learned more about their bundle of joy, "It's a girl, Ella Amena Marie, will be her name, after all three 'moms'". What an honor I responded, all the while thinking that my name shouldn't be first but, I'm so glad it is!

Every child is a gift, every birth a miracle. My first grandchild's arrival was no different and, in some ways was even more miraculous.

Baby Ella -- as she's been referred to for months -- had given mom and dear dad, more than a few tumultuous moments before her arrival (just wait until the teenage years y'all!). Scheduled to join us on Cindy's 87th birthday, Beth and Rashed were told she may need to greet her global fan club via cesarean section.

Perhaps it was Cindy's passing, for she was not just a nurse and a mom but, also a very strong spirit. Or her final input, for one of her last phone conversations was with Rashed, "...c-sections are okay, don't worry". But, shortly thereafter our "breach baby" turned and was ready to face the world, well, almost.

With a week's worth of "Hotlanta" behind me, I planned my next trip, this time to Minnesota and "character buliding cold" temps (I stopped counting at 25 below!).

Whether you're a parent, planning to be one, or not, going to the doctor with an expectant couple is one of life's greatest joys. Following "my son" (wife's fine leather bag in hand, which fortunately matched his shoes) I chuckled as he jumped on the scale before his beautiful bride, registering more baby pounds than her. It was heaven to hear their child's heart beat.

I am forever indebted to Marie and Amena for being parents.

Despite the drama -- and my menopausal moments provided much -- this rather difficult duration resulted in the arrival, on January 14th, of a healthy and beautiful child who is blessed to be an American and is dearly loved by many.

To my world-wide readers I give you Ella Amena Marie!

This proud and grateful grandma is certain that this little girl will continue to bring much happiness to many. Our hearts are filled with love and hope, knowing that children are our future thus, the world will be a better place.

Welcome Ella Amena Marie -- my first grandchild -- I think I'll call you the "Palestinian Princess of Peace".

A Life Well Lived

2007-12-28T21:20:00.000+01:00

Lucille (Cindy) Botticello

Jan 6, 1921 – Dec 22, 2007

She was a nurse.
She was a soldier.
She was a wife.
She was a mother.
She was extraordinarily intelligent.
She was a collector.
Salt & Pepper Sets, Goblets,
Stamps, Coins, Pelicans
Plates and Bosson’s Heads.
She could rhyme anything.
She created poems for all occasions…
Including this one.
She was a voracious reader.
She loved antiques.
She had poor vision but she could spot a yard sale a mile away.
She was always interested in what interested you.
She would clip and send articles for years after a conversation
She traveled the world…
On mountain tops in her 80’s.
She was a child of the Depression and therefore, frugal by nature.
She was a Christian.
She loved Danny more than anything in life.
Sometimes life, for her, was better savored in hindsight.
We will miss her terribly.
Jody

Born Lucille Mae Townsend on January 6th, 1921, in Carbondale, Pennsylvania, she was the daughter of the late Evalyn B. and Raymond N. Townsend. She was preceded in death by her brother Frank L. Townsend. She is survived by the love of her life, her husband Danny. Known to all as Cindy, she had four children and four grandchildren: Jody and Ella of Atlanta, GA and Nice, France; Raymond and Susanna of Winston-Salem, NC; Lynn of Arlington, VA; Andrew and Amy of Arlington, VA. She is also survived by her grandchildren: Christopher, Richard, Casey and Madeline.
Cindy grew up the daughter of a railroad worker and homemaker, who instilled in her a strong work ethic and sincere sense of community service. Her dream of a career in medicine was realized through her life’s work as a nurse. She was a graduate of Benjamin Franklin High School, Carbondale, and Moses Taylor School of Nursing, Scranton, where she remained close friends with many of her classmates throughout her life.
Drafted by the US Army Nurse Corps in 1943, Lieutenant Townsend arrived in France, via a military transport ship, shortly after the Allied Landing. She continued to serve throughout the remainder of World War II in Germany and Luxembourg in the front lines with the 34th Evacuation hospital unit of the Third Army and attached to the 82nd Airborne Division. During the Battle of the Bulge, she worked tirelessly in primitive make-shift shelters, within a few miles of the battle lines. She was awarded two battle stars on her European Theatre ribbon. Many friends, family members and Europeans credit her with winning the war.
Upon her honorable discharge she continued her nursing career at various hospitals and nursing homes, served as a public health nurse in Columbus, GA and in the school systems of Northern Virginia.
Once retired, she and her husband Danny traveled the world including the Orient and the Middle East. Most recently, she led the family festivities by dancing to a “djembe” drum during a soiree in the South of France.
Cindy is admired for her love of God, her devotion to family and appreciation of nature. She was an active member of the First Congregational Church of Port St. Lucie and the American Legion. An accomplished poet, she often honored special events with her own compositions.
Although she probably wouldn’t have said so at the time, she would agree now that it was a life well lived.

Final internment will be at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date.

Many readers have had the privilege of meeting Cindy, all who did, enjoyed her humor and appreciated her wit. This blog is full of remarkable moments with her so you will understand that after yet another great loss, this writer is simply at a loss for words. Thank you all for your continued interest. Please know that, once the tears and sadness have subsided some, I'll share more good times with y'all again.

Celebrating Santa Lucia with Our Saint Cindy

2007-12-13T14:48:00.000+01:00

In Sweden, today is "Luciadagen", Santa Lucia Day, which begins the holiday season, a season in which most Americans have been swamped for weeks now and some since the Fourth of July. Perhaps we should consider less consumption and more tradition (or, is consumption our tradition? that's another blog, rant, rather!).

For this Swede -- with a grandpa, dad, brother and cousin Kjell, you get the picture -- it is a small reminder of some of my heritage.

Santa Lucia was a brave young woman who lived in Rome around the first century.

It may seem out of place to celebrate this Swedish holiday in the bright sunshine of Florida, it seems rather odd to see inflated snowmen in scarves when bikinis seem to suit the temperatures -- albeit not the physiques -- better.

It also seems unreal to be in Cindy's home with her but, without her rather high-pitched call of "Danny".

After nearly two months in the hospital, Cindy has come home with the help of hospice. We're thrilled to have her home. And, although she lays quietly in her bed, eating little, her bright blue eyes illuminate the space and our hearts.

As many blog readers -- and Cindy's global fan club -- know, Cindy's real name is Lucille. Not only is her name similar to that of Santa Lucia's but, these two "Lucys", if you will, have much in common.

Santa Lucia was of Christian faith, as is our Cindy. She was also loved by an Italian, as is ours, Danny's family comes from Genoa.

She was known as the "Lucia Bride". After 36 years of marriage, our Saint is still Danny's bride.

She was courageous, bringing food and drink to the poor. Our Cindy, has numerous examples of her strength and courage, especially during her service as an Army nurse in World War II and for 50 years after that caring for others.

Throughout homes in Sweden, the oldest daughter, wearing a wreath of candles, plays the Lucia Bride by bringing breakfast to her parents. Additionally, families in Sicily celebrate St. Lucia -- where she was born -- with parades of candle light and torches, which as Bill Petro -- the "friendly neighborhood historian" -- says, is "a fitting celebration since Lucia means light."

January 6th, 2008 will be 87 years of Cindy being our light.

For more information on hospice care please see: http://www.hospicecare.com
For more information on Santa Lucia please see: www.billpetro.com

Then and Now

2007-12-04T14:00:00.000+01:00

Jody -- circa 1955 -- Cub Scout extraordinaire.

And, the birthday boy -- circa October 13th -- the life of the party.

After such sadness, it was wonderful to celebrate life and all of our blessings. Jody's 60th birthday was the perfect setting for family and friends to gather together and enjoy each other.

The surprise would not have been possible without Auntie Elsa, Ms. Kitty and Mere Bear's help. Waiting in the wings to lend a hand, this talented trio, accompanied by a tall, dark and handsome Randy, provided the ruse. Two days earlier -- Jody's actual birthday -- this cute quartet joined us for a cozy dinner at Ecco. A lovely restaurant, within walking distance from Chez Dyer, Ecco graciously accommodated our party.

Joining the fun from Florida, Danny and Mom were able to keep a secret.

Cindy remembers well Jody's world debut -- after 72 hours of labor -- as she charmed the crowd with her tall tales.

Donning his doctor duds, "Baby Ray" entertained everyone with his own "Top 10 List"...

The Top 10 Things My Older Brother Jody Has Given Me:

Number 6. The red measles.

Number 5. A Salter-Harris, Type III fracture of my proximal right humerus! I received this when my older brother attempted an acrobatic trick, the technical details of which we learned in exquisite detail after viewing a TV episode of "Circus boy" starring Mickey Dolenz, later of "Monkees" fame.

Number 4. The MAYTAG space ride. This consisted of the flight engineer (Jody) outfitting the 6 year-old astronaut (me) with a football helmet and pillow for a suborbital flight, consisting of 27 revolutions in our MAYTAG clothes dryer! While this may provide some insight into my brother's ultimate interest in engineering and computers, to this day, I have a visceral aversion to laundromats!

Number 3. A 1964 Rambler American with 103,237 miles on the odometer. This big brother hand-me-down was my first car. Unfortunately, Jody neglected to tell me that the head gasket was blown, it had a coolant leak, and the front main bearing had an oil leak requiring more oil replacement per week than could be transported by the Exxon Valdez.

Number 2. A loan to help me finish medical school. Tonight, with this (envelope*) I would like to pay off the outstanding interest you say I still owe you. By the way, I'd appreciate it if you would call off the collection agency and, Susanna wants to know when we can get the Rambler back!

And the Number 1 thing my brother has given me: A living example of how the human spirit can overcome adversity. It seems that at every point you were told you couldn't do something, because of what someone else called your disability, you perceived a personal challenge and set out to prove them wrong. Sitting her tonight proves just how wrong those people were.

With love and respect, the smarter, more handsome Brother! And, I guess it is time to tell you that Mom always did like me best.

Ray, if the writers' strike continues and the doctor business goes haywire, you clearly have comedic career opportunities! *A 1921 Liberty Head silver dollar.

Look a "Tonto" between two roses. No party is complete without Cindy, Emory and Nini.

Mike, aka: "Goat Boy", Karen, Lynn and Jeff join the fun.

Kerry hedges his bets -- between an attorney, Claudine, and an ultrasound technician, Karen -- he's ready for his next heart attack or malpractice suit.

Charlotte and Randy smile for the party paparazzi. "Ms. Scarlett", we've come a long way from Elan's.

Former Miss Alaska, and the best looking member of the famous doo wop group The Platters, Maryline, took time off from her world tour to enchant all with her velvet vocals.

Sherri, Linda, Ron and Lloyd kept the crowd calm as everyone waited for Jody's arrival.

Thanks to the Georgia Tech Marching Band for topping off the festivities with all of our favorites, including Ramblin' Wreck from Georgia Tech, Up with the White and Gold and that ubiquitous Budweiser "anthem".

Yes babe, this is my "swan song" of surprise soirees, my nearly 50 year-old nerves simply can't take it anymore.

A sincere thank you to everyone who joined us, who helped make this event a smashing success and worked so willingly to make 100+ guests happy.

Special thanks to Wayne, Maryline and Phil for sharing their musical gifts with us. Y'all should tour together!

Thanks to Lee of Trilogy for his "green chili" and Edie for her margaritas. Pammy, thanks for being my eyes and ears, Sharon my wheels and many others for the Publix "run".

For more information on Cub Scouts please see: www.scouting.org
For more information on Ecco please see: www.ecco-atlanta.com
For more information on Wayne please see: www.waynehamilton.com
For more information on Maryline please see: www.marylineblackburn.com
For more information on Phil please see? His offspring: www.myspace.com/deerhunter
For more information on The Georgia Tech Marching Band please see: www.gtband.net
For more of Lee's fabulous dishes please see: www.trilogydining.net

Our Thanks to Our Veterans

2007-11-22T08:07:00.000+01:00

Shortly after Jody's surprise birthday party, soon to be a picture-packed blog, Cindy became very ill and was hospitalized for several weeks. Determined not to lose another member of the "greatest generation", Ditto and I were dispatched to Florida while Jody supported the family at Pop's service in Virginia. Fortunately, for all of us, she is recovering well and even found time to attend the Veterans Day celebration at St. Lucie Medical Center (SLMC).

Oh, the stories Cindy could -- and should -- tell of her years of service in the U.S. Army. As a young nurse, she was drafted and landed in Normandy, France, just days after the "allies". She saw combat on the front lines during her tour of duty in Europe.

We're certain this patriotic American was instrumental in winning the war.

Sam and Larry -- dear friends and fellow "Vets" -- joined the festivities as our Nation's heros were honored and remembered. And, they joined us for dinner to celebrate Cindy's improving health (recipes for "Sam's Comfort" and Larry's Cream Cheese Pie follow).

Females were not the only minority who answered the call to duty during World War II (WWII). Many Americans -- in particular the first black military airmen of Tuskegee -- stepped up to the challenge, even though sadly "there were many people who thought that black men lacked intelligence, skill, courage and patriotism".

Any American reading this blog can thank our Veterans. This service honored Captain Charles A. Hill, Jr., a Tuskegee Airman who passed away earlier this year at SLMC.

On this traditional American holiday of Thanksgiving, we thank our Veterans, all those who are serving and those who have or will. And Cindy, we thank you for all of your hard work as you make a full recovery. We know it is selfish on our part, but we want you to be with us for many more years, especially as we recognize you and Danny as you celebrate 36-years of marriage, grandkids' graduations and so much more.

Hang in there Dollface, we need you!

Those participating in the moving ceremony included the American Legion (Post 40), the Color Guard, which "renders honors when the national anthem is played or sung", the NJROTC (Centennial High School) the U.S. Military Veterans Motorcycle club (USMVMC, on behalf of Patriot Guard Riders) the Girl Scouts and the 4-H Group.

Taps was played by the USMVMC-C4 bugler. And, Amazing Grace -- the hymn, written in the 1770's -- was played by the bag piper as wreaths were placed near our flag.

For more information on these points of interest please see:
The Greatest Generation , by Tom Brokaw
www.stluciemed.com
www.va.gov
www.tuskegeeairmen.org
www.legion.org
www.navyjrotc.us
www.girlscouts.org
www.4husa.org
www.west-point.org/taps

Sam's Comfort

Equal parts Southern Comfort and Canadian Club (NAFTA* at its best!)

Larry's Cream Cheese Pie

Pie ingredients:
12 oz. cream cheese
2 eggs, beaten
3/4 cup sugar (I am going to try this with Splenda)
2 teaspoons vanilla
2 teaspoons lemon or lime juice (Larry uses lime and it was wonderful!)
9" gramham cracker pie crust
1/4 stick melted butter (brushed on pie crust before filling with mixture)

Topping ingredients:
1 cup sour cream
3 1/2 tablespoons sugar (again, I'm going to use Splenda)
1 teaspoon vanilla

Soften cream cheese and combine with above pie ingredients. Whip in blender until light and frothy. Pour into a 9" graham cracker crust pie pan. Bake for 15 - 20 minutes at 350 degrees. Remove from oven and cool for 5 minutes.

While pie is cooling blend topping ingredients and pour over pie. Return to oven and bake for 10minutes. Refrigerate for at least 5 hours before serving. May be frozen once covered. Serves six to eight. May be made ahead of time.

Note to readers, be careful when making Larry's pie while enjoying Sam's comfort!
*NAFTA, the North American Free Trade Agreement
(My reference was just a joke.)
For more information on Splenda please see: www.splenda.com

Laid to Rest

2007-11-18T22:59:00.000+01:00

Since 1864, Arlington Naitonal Cemetery -- overlooking Washington D.C. -- has been home to over a quarter of a million gravesites, many "honoring those men and women who served in the Armed Forces", our Nation's heros.

Recently, on a bright fall morning, Arlington Naitonal Cememtery welcomed one more hero.

Flanked by friends, generations of the Dyer family bid Pop a final farewell.

Deserving of such tradition and respect -- for which the U.S. Military is known -- Pop was laid to rest.

Army pall bearers gently bring our loved one home...

... and present Shirley with the flag. This symbol of all that is good in our Nation -- respect and honor -- just some of the values for which Pop stood.

We all miss Pop.

For more information on Arlington National Cemetery please see:
www.arlingtoncemetery.org

Our Loss

2007-10-29T14:46:00.001+01:00

September 25, 1921 – October 7, 2007

Joseph Angell Dyer

He was a father.
He was a husband.
He was a soldier*.
He was loyal.
He was industrious.
He was the most generous person I have ever known.
He was a lover.
He loved his family.
He loved a bowl of fruit.
He loved NASCAR.
He loved the Redskins.
He loved telling jokes.
He would often repeat the same one and laugh like a child.
He loved cars.
He could fix anything and with his kids’ driving record, he often had to.
He loved politics…
Especially if you were a Republican
He loved birds.
He loved gardening.
He loved the Army.
He loved Shirley more than anything in life.
I wish I could have been as good a son as he was a father.
We will miss him terribly.

*Pop served in three branches of the Army: Engineers, Signal Corps and the Infantry, which he dearly loved. He served during World War II, the Korean and Vietnam wars with tours of duty overseas in Panama, Korea and Germany. He served five tours in the Washington, D.C. area, one being with the famous 3rd US Infantry Regiment (known as The Old Guard). The Old Guard is the Army’s official ceremonial unit and escort to the President. In addition, soldiers of The Old Guard maintain a 24 -hour vigil at the Tomb of the Unknowns.

Tomorrow, at Arlington National Cemetery, Pop will be laid to rest.

On a personal note, Jody you are every bit as good of a son, and husband, as your dear Dad.

And then, once at band camp...

2007-10-01T18:01:00.000+02:00

...Jody meet the lovely Sharon, an oboe-playing, baton twirling senior from a nearby high school. Still gorgeous, this dear friend (and Jody's first love, who could blame him!) generously shared with us the special occasion of her son's marriage.

The wedding, set in a small church in Napa, California, resembled a picture perfect scene from a Martha Stewart event. With weather, and scenery, as beautiful as the bride and groom --who look more like models than the talented professionals that they are -- a life together began with family and friends in attendance.

Once vows were exchanged the festivities moved to a nearby winery (no, I had nothing to do with planning this lavish event!). It seems that after setting records on the race track Mario Andretti is now making some luscious wines.

Driving up the rather long and very straight, vine-clad private road, we could almost feel the sun warming the grapes. Once parked -- in our "rock star" reserved place, thank you Andretti's Winery -- we felt as if we had arrived in Tuscany.

Thank you Rachel and Tim for sharing your special day with us. Sharon, thank you for being a parent and, for being a dear friend to both of us. We love you!

For more information on Andretti's please see: www.andrettiwinery.com

Our Troops -- Party With a Purpose

2007-09-18T18:05:00.000+02:00

Recently, Wally's Angels -- a philanthropic, as well as a social group of women and moms, begun by my dear friend Debi -- met to enjoy some food and fun at the new Chez Dyer

Between the "other" Madame Dyer's chicken chip bake and my puckering pink panty pull-downs -- recipes to follow -- guests enjoyed a unique take away, one with a message.

Edie, Sharon, Donna, Jody (the "other" one) Pam and Sonia joined me in saluting our troops by supporting our new campaign "Bon A Petit".

In an effort to support our friend Travis Sellers, and all of our troops, please join us in a unique culinary experience... a meal ready to eat (MRE). Although we may not be able to fully replicate what our brave women and men are experiencing as they serve in our Military, we can sample a "mess call" (sans sand and insects).

May we suggest that you have your MRE rather than dinning out and with the money you save support our troops. You may also want to purchase another MRE and pass it, including our message, along.

Bon a petit!

For more information please visit:

Operation Stars & Stripes, Inc.
483 Old Canton Rd., Suite 100
Marietta, Georgia 30068
Phone: (770) 509-1156/starsstripes4u.org/OSSCarePackages.asp

Brigade Quartermasters Retail Store
1025 Cobb International Dr. NW
Kennesaw, Georgia 30152/brigadequartermasters.com

Chicken Chip Bake

1 1/4-1 1/2 lbs chicken breasts, cooked & chopped
1 1/4 Cups chopped celery
1/4 C. slivered almonds
1/2 T. Salt
3/4 Cup to 1 full cup chopped onion
1 1/2 T. lemon juice
1 Cup Mayo
1 Cup shredded Cheddar Cheese
1/2 C. crushed potato chips

Combine all ingredients except cheese & potato chips.
Put in oblong baking dish (7x12 or 8x11)
Sprinkle cheese on top
Top w/crushed potato chips

Bake uncovered 45 mins (or until bubbly) in 350 degree oven. Serves four. May also be prepared without chicken for vegetarian guests.

Puckering Pink Panty Pull-downs:

1 shot of vodka (being half Swedish I use Absolut)
1 shot of Dekuyper Sour Apple Pucker Sweet & Sour Schnapps
1 shot of pomegranate juice (recently touted by Oprah's Dr. Oz as good for our health)
1 teaspoon fresh squeezed lime juice
1 teaspoon fresh squeezed lemon juice
1/2 cup sparkling soda (sugar free works well too for those of us watching our waistlines!)

Shake well, serve in chilled martini glass with a sprig of fresh mint or a slice of fruit. Enjoy responsibly

The Hotest Ticket in Town

2007-08-30T11:15:00.000+02:00

Last month, the National Black Arts Festival (NBAF) brought the Los Angeles-based Pan African Film Festival (PAFF), "the largest event in the United States dedicated to the exhibition of Black films", to Atlanta. International and independent films were featured enabling audiences to "move beyond the Cineplex and experience the images, issues, imagination, intensity and artistry of people of African descent".

And, what an experience it was. Adaora, the darling Nigerian daughter "I never had", has talent. Rag Tag is written, produced and directed by this fine young lady.

Hopping on MARTA (my favorite form of transportation in Atlanta) my dear friend Jeffri and I dashed to the prestigious High Museum for the film. We greeted Adaora's entourage: the Kings, "Auntie" Pammy, "Auntie" Honey, Ms. Donna and of course, "Sister" Stacy. It takes a super-star to have an entourage even when she's not present.

"Auntie" Jeffri welcomed the audience (25+ folks) and spoke of spending time with the film maker, in France, earlier this summer. Then, she turned the floor over to me where I beamed with "motherly" pride.

"Hi, I'm Ella, Adaora's 'American Mom'. It's a pleasure and a privilege to be at the festival and to introduce Rag Tag, a film by Adaora Nuwandu. The film, like the festival, needs no introduction so I'll keep this brief.

It's only fitting that Adaora's film be part of a festival which promotes tolerance, for Adaora is not only talented and beautiful but also very tolerant. Lord knows she's tolerated my singing in church for years now.

Rag Tag will speak of her many talents like her incredible sense of humor, for nothing turns heads like her proper British accent calling me 'Momma' in public".

Once the film was over one woman was very vocal as she left. She was upset and offended by the story line (what part of "Parental Discretion Advised" on the ticket did she not understand?). Louida, the consummate film festival professional, asked those of us remaining if we would like to discuss the film as well as the woman's reaction.

We did.

Louida then asked if the festival should continue to show films with subject matters that many in society simply consider wrong. Needless to say, this was an open-minded group and "yes!" was the immediate response as well as a consensus that the "boldness" of the film is what the festival is all about.

I can't begin to express how moving Adaora's talent is. Love, tolerance, understanding, acceptance, and the ability to quote scriptures with rapid fire, this film has it all including humorous touches -- perfectly timed -- within sensitive, and adult subject scenes.

Folks wanted to know about Adaora. They were amazed to learn how young she is and that this is her first film. And, they were thrilled to know that we do attend church together.

What I was unable to share with her newest fans is the following:

Adaora - Ada= First daughter Ora= community/people
So, first daughter of the people in Igbo (Eastern Nigeria Language).
Other popular variations in Igbo include -
Adaeze - First daughter of the king i.e. princess
Adaobi - First daughter of the heart
Adaaku - First daughter of the fortune
Adamma - First daughter of the beauty

Hmmm, I wonder how you say "First Film Award" in Igbo?

Bravo Adaora! Continue to follow your passion. Thank you for the wonderful opportunity to be part of your accomplishment.

For more information on Adaora's film please visit: www.mukaflicks.co.uk
For more information on NBAF please visit: www.nbaf.org
For more information on PAFF please visit: www.paff.org
For more information on the High Museum please visit: www.high.org

Hello from "La La Land" (aka: Los Angeles)

2007-07-26T03:24:00.000+02:00

Like the last blog stated, I haven't been "home" too long before another trip arose. Fortunatley, this one didn't include flying over water or, statistics! Just a small suitcase, a quick rent-a-car and a "lil'" brother in town. Of course, having one of my favorite IUM classmates (the daring Dette) available for dinner was just a bonus.

Off I went to my hometown, leaving my beloved Jody and the darling Ditto behind to fend for themselves in the newly inhabitated "Cheetah Condo" (I knew they'd be okay).

Two of my favorite guys celebrate the same birthday (July 18th, 80 years apart). Like Nathan, I have an "Uncle Louie" who has been a gift in my life. I was an infant (just a few decades ago) when he held me in his arms while I was baptized. Daddy says the ceremony lasted for hours in the hot sun and yet, "Mr. D" never took his eyes off of me.

When Daddy invited me to my godfather's party I was eager to attend, see family and old friends. I just didn't feel up to popping out of the cake (fortunately, I didn't have to)!

The party provided the perfect opportunity to catch up with more family. Misha and Omar (our youngest sister and her wonderful husband) have blessed us with even more of the next generation. Ashley and Bella have all the bases covered when it comes to intellect, beauty and good ol' fashioned "Nelson charm". These bright relatives, along with their brother, the darling Damien (a full schedule didn't allow him to join in the family fun this time) will, like all of our nieces and nephews, continue to make this world a better place.

Our family continues to grow, and be blessed, as we welcome new members and give thanks for those who have been with us for years now. Daddy is the one to thank for a 60+ year relationship with "Mr. D". And, he brought the amazing (and last!) Mrs. Nelson into the fold.

In turn, Rebecca has blessed us with her incredible example of being a sister, her son Christopher and now the adorable Deseriee. Together, they will usher in more of the next generation as their baby (Ella is a great middle name for any child!) is expected January 25th ("Auntie Dawn's" birthday).

It's just meant to be.

PS A special prayer to my brother Lou as he says good-bye to the "Beloved Barnie". Our thoughts are with y'all.

Let's Party!

2007-07-20T07:16:00.000+02:00

Some "soirees" (parties) followed last month's "big day". Once the champagne toast "dans le jardin" (in the garden) of Holy Trinity was enjoyed, I put two favorite family members in charge of the afternoon festivities. Expecting 75 + people was no worry for these two. Thanks Auntie Elsa and Sarah Jo for all of your help, we had a blast!

Although unable to join us, my sister Caroline was never far from my thoughts. The first family member to complete her college degree, she set an excellent example for her siblings and the next generation. And, she knows just how to enhance a party table; the beautiful flowers are from her (nine time zones away!) and made my day. Thanks Sweetie, I appreciate you thinking of me.

Ready to get the party started, Dady Mimbo brought out his djembe (an African drum).

Adaora didn't think that her "white momma" was completely hopeless on the dance floor.

The conga line made its way towards Cindy who remembers the moves and music well. Readers will remember her dance and drum lesson on a post from last summer.

Louis showed off a few dance moves (those ballet classes several decades ago, still come in handy!).

Rachida joined Dawn and Louis in the fun; after all, it was Rachida's connection that introduced me to IUM.

Like all of my children "I never had", Adaora remains a gift in our lives.

And, here are more international "kids". Despite hectic, post grad schedules, some of my favorite classmates joined us. Yasuko, Daniel, Michael, Kenichi and Han remain close in my heart despite being as far away as Asia and Afganistan. Throughout our year together, I was both amazed and encouraged by their ability to study, help others (especially me) and fit in a cocktail or two. Thanks for everything y'all. I can't wait for our IUM reunion!

Jeffri (Atlanta University, MBA '89 and fellow member of The Junior League of Atlanta, Inc., JLA) and I first met on the JLA's marketing committee. Who knew that several years later, we'd be enjoying what the League promotes (friendship, education and cookbooks, just to name a few) together in France?

We can congratulate this cute couple who will soon tie the knot. Congratulations Erik and Mary Jo, we're thrilled for y'all!

In the small world category, this one takes the "gateau" (cake). Picture this, Frenchman Lionel meets and marries our friend Camille in Atlanta. This year's annual vacation (to visit family on the French Riviera) coincided with the party. Little did we know that my dear brother-in-law Richard and Camille (shown here with Carol, Richard's amazing mother) were classmates, in the 4th grade! Another small world event took place the day before (at graduation) as a former student of Carol's class (she taught Latin) not only recognized her but also gushed that Carol was her favorite teacher. We understand because Carol is one of our favorite "relatives"!

Re-enacting, "avec plasir" (with pleasure) last year's "bisous des babes" (kisses of babes) Danny smiles for the camera with me, Mary, Berta and Niloufar.

Friendly affection continues as Dady puts Rachida on the pedestal she deserves. Nelson, Grace Ann and Nathan will benefit from Rachida's "leçons françaises" (French lessons) next summer.

Talent abounds as Dady Mimbo and Adaora show off their star-like smiles. Percussionist extraordinaire and filmmaker maven, these two made the party come alive with their African flare. (Note to parents of my younger readers: Adaora's film, which I'll be attending, later this month in Atlanta, is for mature audiences.)

More talent was in the room as Didier made a special effort to join us despite the party falling on his birthday. The Italian "son" we never had, has been touring almost non-stop with his hit songs, spectacular smile and warm ways.

The talent continues to the next generation as Nelson clearly exhibits Uncle Kjell's ability to play musical instruments. Despite the crowded kitchen and the lack of "bi-lingualness" between the two, Dady marveled at Nelson's ability to pick up the beat. The next day, Nelson had a private lesson and Dady confirmed that this delightful 10 year-old has a natural talent. A djembe is on order.

Well, after being in Atlanta for a few weeks, I'm ready for another trip and another party, this time to Los Angeles to help surprise my sweet godfather on his 87th birthday (and catch up with an IUM classmate). Stay tuned, for like all posts, that promises to be a fun blog.

For more information on Holy Trinity please see: www.anglican-nice.com
For more information on Dady Mimbo please see: www.myspace.com/dadymimbo
For more information on Adaora's film, please see: www.mukaflicks.co.uk
For more information on the JLA please see: www.jlatlanta.org

The Big Day

2007-07-14T10:21:00.000+02:00

It's been four weeks since "the big day". As they say, and we all know who "they" are, time flies when you're having fun (as the next few blogs will be certain to show).

Half a "term" since our time together in Monte-Carlo. The day was bright and everyone, I mean everyone, was on time as we met downstairs and found our way to the bus station where we boarded the #100 to Monaco. Once there, Jody treated my "entourage" to lunch at Cafe de Paris (a favorite party place of IUM and where I've already reserved the Salon Bellevue for our 20th wedding anniversary). Then, it was only a short walk past the grand casino to the grand celebration.

These wonderful travelers were "runway ready" on the big day. Merci y'all.

Gaurav, (aka: "G'Man") Joan (the "class rep") and Wesam, like all the students, will always be the best part of my "menopause MBA" experience.

Wesam and I just moments before our big entrance (hope my cap stayed on). One of my favorite classmates, this Egyptian/Canadian "son I never had", is continuing his education with IUM's doctoral program. I look forward to attending his next graduation. Special thanks to his Mom for raising an amazing young man who helped me through some of the most difficult days of accounting classes. See you soon my friend.

As the Salle Empire of the Hotel de Paris was prepared for the big event, we caught a glimpse of "Ms. Dette" (one of my favorite honor students!) on the big screen. Can you say ceiling "bling"?

Reserved for my cheering section, I hold the record for not only the most guests at graduation (in the history of the school) but probably also the greatest age span, 80 years. Thanks to all the lovely ladies at IUM who made this seating arrangement possible.

Front and center....

Our friend Phil (who looks like a relative) joins the proud moms.

My sincere thanks to all who traveled far, many for the first time, to join me for this special event. And special thanks to my mother, Dixie Lee (from Memphis, Tennessee) who overcame her discomfort with flying to bring three generations together for some family fun.

Pre-party Fun

2007-07-11T09:51:00.000+02:00

In order to be "runway ready" (as my brother Louis would say) for the big event (the next blog, "je promets", I promise) we decided to work on our tans just a little (good thing everyone knows my pink cowboy hat, otherwise, they wouldn't be able to tell my sister Dawn and me apart!).

Grace Ann models Auntie Elsa's shoes (she can't wait to "graduate" to high heels, Grace Ann, not Auntie Elsa).

Nelson helps Uncle Jody bathe Ditto, "le chien incroyable" (the incredible dog). Although unable to attend the first of several festivities (graduation) Ditto was a hit at the post party.

Nathan examines his new red Ferrari. Following big sister Sarah Jo's lead, these three houseguests were excellent during their first trip abroad. Adjusting well to the seven-hour time difference (and the small space) they made us all proud with their good manners and "inside voices".

Two of my favorite Nelsons, no family event is complete without Auntie Elsa, who like Louis, is always ready to travel and party. Sincere thanks to both for all of their love and support.

World travelers, Cindy and Danny show everyone (including Jody and Ditto) the "ropes". Like the rest of the family, these two were instrumental in helping me during my difficult but rewarding, academic adventures. Thanks so much y'all, I couldn't have done it without you!

Wayne Hamilton -- What Talent!

2007-07-07T15:40:00.000+02:00

On this day of global music, it only seems right to highlight Wyane, one of our favorite musicians. And, after several weeks of trying, unsuccessfully I might add, to link the audio I don't want readers to wait any longer to learn about this dear friend of ours (perhaps Ella's Song will appear on his website soon).

Wayne is a friend of mine from the 6th grade on. He has won a number of awards for songwriting including one called "Lucky That Way" about yours truly's exploits in a poker game years ago.

Hope you can listen because it is REALLY GOOD!

Miss you all,

Jody

Hi Ella,

As you heard from evite, Cathy & I can't make it to your celebration; however, CONGRATULATIONS!

I was so inspired I woke up the other day with an idea for a song to commemorate your graduation. Lyrix appear below. I'm going to make a recording with a big band (at least, that's the plan) & will send you a copy when it's done.

Meanwhile, ENJOY!

Best ever,
Wayne & Cathy

A Song for Ella

It would be nice
To be in Nice
On your graduation day
But it’s too bad we can’t be there
To see and share your happiness
We’re feeling so tristesse outre

We’ll shout out loud
How very proud
We are of your accomplissement
An MBA from IUM
Is no small feat we’ll say tout suite:
Mais oui je suis fière de toi

So have a ball say hi to all
Who come to join the celebration

It would be hip to take that trip
As you complete your education

We’ll send our vibe and that’s no jive
To help experience elation

Voila!
What fun!
Way to go!

For more information on this talented friend please visit:
http://www.waynehamilton.com/

As The Sun Sets...

2007-07-04T21:25:00.000+02:00

On this first 4th of July in the new "chez nous", I reflect on the good fortune we have, not only as Americans but also as members of a global family. My past year at IUM (ranked number one in the world in diversity) reinforced the need and delight in learning about other cultures, meeting new people and accepting variety without compromising our values. Ms. "Dette", one of only a few of my classmates who graduated with honors, honored me with her daily greeting of "hey, hot momma" as well as acknowledging my desire to accept differences with diplomacy.

Still no scholar, I think that diplomacy is a major part of democracy. So on this day, the pinnacle of celebrations for such an inalienable right, I want to share my favorite phrase from America's Declaration of Independence (listed below) with my readers:

"We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness."

And, for folks around the world who are not as fortunate as we are, who may not even have clean drinking water or, may still be enslaved, and for others who may think that privileged nations have become "soft" on what is important, I reflect on two young people. Again, the members of the next generation exemplify the finest of what democracy and just doing the right thing, has to offer.

Imagine a first grader being moved to action to help others around the world who don't have clean drinking water. Imagine the $70 this youngster raised less than 10 years ago flowing into 266 wells in 12 countries. "The Ryan's Well Foundation aims to inspire and encourage children, adults, schools, and service organizations to engage in activities that will develop funds for water and health-related projects in African countries and other developing nations."

And, how does a 7th grade student mobilize many to raise money for those who are not free? Learn about Zach Hunter, a self-proclaimed "abolitionist" who created Loose Change to Loosen Chains (LC2LC).

Like the amazing young people in our family (as seen on previous blogs and no doubt will be featured on many, many future ones) these global citizens are self actualized, motivated and resourceful enough to help others. On this day of freedom, may we all strive to be more like them.

For more information, and to perhaps become inspired by these visionaries, please visit the following websites:
http://www.archives.gov
http://www.ryanswell.ca
http://www.ijm.org

Je Suis Très Fatigué

2007-06-30T13:25:00.000+02:00

This shot of our favorite six year-old says it all, i.e., Nathan looks like I feel (I am very tired)!

After a hectic year (many, many months of feeling as though I was in over my head) we wrapped up my "menopause MBA" with family, friends and fun. I do hope that my worldwide network will resume their readership as I promise more frequent blogs (just posting photos from the last few events will provide content for weeks!).

And, as I return to summer in "Hotlanta" I take delight in sharing with everyone yet another gift (this time poetic) from Cindy, my incredible mother-in-law:

"Hooray, hooray, Ella got her MBA
What's next in the master plan
I hope it's the USA and not Japan
This little angle is just like you
Sweet and helpful in all you do
And carrying a book, looks just right
Cause your zest for learning remains strong and bright
All our love goes to you
And more success in all you do".

Now, as soon as I determine how to upload Wayne's "gift", y'all will be in for a musical delight.

A bientôt y'all et, des milliers de bisous très doux.

C'est Fini!

2007-06-10T16:58:00.000+02:00

After a 10 month "gestation", my MBA program is complete, except for graduation, parties and, what else but, more parties!

Despite living in the "electronic" age, there was plenty of bleached tree trunk (as Jody likes to call paper) around. I hope at least some of the information from these books and papers penetrated my gray matter...we'll see. Not to worry about additions to any landfill, some tomes will be kept, others "shared" with Flavia, (one of my most academically inclined buddies) and the rest, donated to the library of Holy Trinity (may be helpful should Father Ken include "derivatives" in a future homily).

This frequent note on the coffee machine, near my main classroom, MBA2 (where is MBA1?) could spawn more groans (or snores) than the tram workers in Nice.

Speaking of tram workers..., we're confident that the "dedication" of Place Massena, this Saturday, will be brilliant, especially since the hired help is well rested!

Guess what was in our mailbox (on the last day of school)? Yep, a notice that my long anticipated carte de sejour (good for one year) has been processed! IUM adheres to France's legal requirements and readers may remember that I began my quest for this status about this time last year. (I hope it's retroactive!)

Tiffany & Company (as well as my initials) says it all!

As the festivities approach, I want to thank my amazing in-laws for all of their love and support throughout the year. Knowing that Pop, et al, believed in my ability to hang in there with the most intelligent of students (many half my age!) manage my time and not crack under the pressure, meant the world to me. The kind words of encouragement from all family members and friends to "go for it" propelled me through the most challenging (and longest!) days of the past year. My classmates were also incredible, "good work Mom", was bestowed upon me daily. And of course Jody (and his "H-Bomb") being behind me from the beginning, made this possible.

From the bottom of my heart, I thank everyone for your help.

Hey babe, guess what, "we" don't have any more homework!

Mothers' and Sisters' Day

2007-05-12T23:08:00.000+02:00

For some, tomorrow is Mother's Day, a celebration of "la fête du maman". For me, I think everyday should be a celebration of mothers AND sisters.

Lucky me, I have both.

For on any day, I can speak of many women, mothers (and more!). Many of whom I know and many of whom which I am privileged to call family.

First, and foremost, my mother Dixie Lee. The most current example of her dedication to her children is the fact that despite her "discomfort" with air travel, she is setting aside her feelings to join me, friends and family (three generations) as we celebrate my graduation from the International University of Monaco (IUM). This means several long flights. This is just one of the many things I appreciate about her.

The list is long so here are the "Cliff Notes".

Despite her youth, she had the innate ability to keep the family unit in tact. The late 50's and 60's were an era of discovery and sometimes mayhem yet, with her belief in a higher power (and the power of carrot juice) we more than survived. Mother looked like Marilyn Monroe even with a shovel in her hand (she was always gardening, organically!). Ahead of her time, we grew up with the thought of recycling, gleaming the fields and mulching. Her "carbon footprint" (probably in the shape of a stiletto even to this day) is to be admired and emulated.

Equally important as her willingness to keep a young family together, is her sincere feeling, the core of her being, that everyone is equal. We grew up in the sometimes tumultuous era of America's "Civil rights" (not far from the Watts riots). Again, she was ahead of her time. Whether someone was tall or short, a different color than us, rich or poor, or spoke another language, everyone (and I mean EVERYONE!) was one of God's cherished creatures.

We may have been one of the few fatherless families on the block (with corn stocks sprouting out of the back yard of our suburban home) but, we were the most well mannered children in the county. Our "hand me down" clothes didn't always fit but, we knew to appreciate them. As we knew to accept and appreciate every person, no matter how different than us they may be.

This lesson continues to serve me well as I attend IUM (ranked number one in the world in diversity). And as it did 18 years ago when I first met Jody. For thanks to my mother, I saw a "cute guy" with an amazing smile.

And, she's not the only amazing mother in my life. I'm blessed with Cindy, Jody's Mom and Shirley, Jody's Step Mom (or, as the French would say "sa belle mère"). Both gifts in my life.

And Aunt Bobbie (we share names) continues to exemplify "womanhood". More than 40 years ago she gave me four quarters to buy some party supplies for an upcoming event (that explains it!). Now the matriarch of multiple generations, her laugh alone can fill a room and make any day brighter.

Equally important in my life are sisters. Whether they be moms or sister-in-laws, these women inspire and accept me. They make me want to be a better person.

Fortunate enough to have several "sisters"; Paula, Caroline, Dana, Susanna, Misha, Amy and Dawn, I take strength from each of them. Some may not have given birth, may not share my name or blood but, all continue to contribute greatly to my blessed life.

Speaking of mothers who are also sisters, one lovely lady merits even more mention. The kind and intelligent (and we all hope, the LAST) Mrs. Nelson has raised ALL bars beyond my comprehension. A single mother of two, this incredibly capable and hardworking young woman has recently given the gift of life yet again.

The effervescent and completely capable Rebecca just gave her sister a kidney.

So, here's to moms, worldwide. Whether they have children due to their desire to nurture another human being rather than, via their womb, I appreciate their unselfish and unyielding efforts. Moms and sisters, women in general, are all to be celebrated.

And, for my IUM classmates, when you next speak to your moms (soon I hope!) please tell them that I said thanks. This year (albeit "challenging" at times) and my life, has again been enhanced, thanks to them.

Frat Boys "do" France

2007-05-07T17:50:00.000+02:00

Having known Chris (since the tender age of three when he insisted that I "give Daddy the check") it's been an absolute pleasure to see this Dyer grow into the fine young man that he is today. A cross between his amazing parents and grandparents, his most endearing (and sometimes overwhelming) personal trait, is his gregarious, take charge and bigger than life personality...much like that of his Uncle Jody.

Yes, the two are very similar; from their generous smiles and booming voices to their ability to capture my heart. Over the past 18 years I've been known to say that one of the best things about being married to Jody (besides being "The END") is being part of his family. With generations of intelligent and caring people, Chris (like his brother Richard and all of the adorable nieces and nephews in our life) assures me that the world is a better place thanks to this generation. And, thanks to Frat Boys "doing" France...I've met even more of those who will continue to propel the world into a better place.

Following are just a few photos of the "next generation", all in various moments of fun (and folly). It was charming to see students, from the University of North Carolina (UNC) and the International University of Monaco (IUM) meet and keep this Dyer thrilled to be in their company.

But first, proof that we "survived". A group shot of Frat Boys "did" France (and an aging but still alive, Auntie Ella) on the day of their departure. C.C., "Boy Scout Boy", William, Tom (with a thrilled Ditto), Chris, Michael, Chris and "Hank" bid us farewell, until next time.

France wasn't big enough for the fine Frat Boys so we went to the fare Principality of Monaco for some entertainment. Here, Dady Mimbo explained to all that he plays "jungle music".

We enjoyed The Legend until the first train back to France (the next day!).

Only to rest up for another international event...a "pub crawl" in Vieux Nice (Old Town) in honor of St. Patrick's Day. Not sure that anyone in our group of (25+ people from probably a dozen countries) was even Irish but, everyone did their best to show their school solidarity. Starting with the "Viking"...Erik of IUM.

Continuing with Natalie, of both UNC and IUM (not to worry, this Luxury Goods and Services student ALREADY has her MBA!)

And, the future Dr. Younan (one of my favorite IUM classmates!)

Following is Ubaid, also of IUM (if only "Mom" was 30 years younger!)

Cheers to G'Man (of IUM, VECS and dare we say Casino "fame"?)

Even my fellow American Daniel and Kenichi (both of IUM) joined the fun.

Tom (of UNC) shows school spirit and warns all to be careful or else...

...they may end up wearing big hats and fuzzy, green hair! Daniel and Vanessa (from Holy Trinity and IUM) join in the fun.

Fortunately, "my" Chris didn't fall prey to the shots and wigs...

Neither did Yuhko (the capable treasurer of IUM's "Graduate Student Association").

As our school year together draws to an end, I realize how much I will miss my classmates. As their "American Mom" (I was recently dubbed the "MBA Mom"!) I look forward to keeping in touch with them wherever their careers (and they will be successful ones!) take them.

Of course, no evening is complete without the participation and leadership of the Class Representative. The lovely Joan showed her IUM classmates and UNC students alike (her latest fans club) just how to enjoy a much needed break from school.

"C.C.", also a blogger (although I don't have that coveted address!) gives the evening a good ol' college try.

More of G'Man...."look ma, no beef, just a really BIG beer".

And, Sarah (aka: "Maple Spice") knows how to wear a hat of any color!

Well...one Dyer is "down". Fortunately, "Hank" is overseeing Chris, ATO's (Alpha Tau Omega) President. Thus, the evening/morning and trip, was deemed a success.

One of my highlights (and there were many!) of this visit was shortly before the guys' departure. I gave "my" Chris (for in this group of eight, 50% were named Chris!) a sealed envelope addressed to each guy's Mom. With a straight face I told them it was their spring break "report card". Silence fell over the room and the looks on their young, slightly fatigued faces, were priceless...actually, it was a sincere thank you note to each mother for the remarkable young men they have raised. Each and every one was polite (using their "inside voices" at ALL times!) interesting and interested. All of them are a tribute to the values of humankind, the strengths of their school and by all means, their parents' efforts to better the world.

Stay tuned for Auntie Ella's adventure as an "honorary member" of ATO (guys, I'm holding y'all to that promise!).

And for more information on Feel da Vibz or The Legend please visit:

http://www.soonnight.com/soiree-the_legend-feel_da_vibz_vip_-26664.html

The Legend
3, Avenue Des Spelugues
Tél : +377 93 50 53 13
http://thelegend-monaco.soonnight.com

For more information on ATO please see: www.ato.org

Le Chien Incroyable

2007-05-01T22:09:00.000+02:00

"It's about darn time I got back to "Hotlanta" and my Dad (the one who feeds me!).

So were Ditto's thoughts as we made a whirlwind trip back to Atlanta last week to "pack". We did manage a few moments (and glasses of wine) with friends, we were especially thrilled to "toast" Nini, no doubt the most marvelous June Bride to Be.

Sadly, we didn't get to visit with Aunt Vee, although our telephone conversation was more than encouraging (she believes in my academic abilities and I appreciate that coming from a former "educator" -- actually, she spent 50+ years teaching so, I think she knows her "stuff").

Anyway, we had fun, made some progress (un petit peu) and tried to gear up for Term V, which begins tomorrow.

Now, I know what you're thinking...as much as readers (around the world, on all continents I might add -- it's not braggin' if it's true -- and it is!) enjoy an updated photo of the Princess Pup, what y'all really want to see is Frat Boys "do" France.

Bientot, je promets (soon, I promise)!

The weather is more than lovely, I'm receiving the most welcomed itineraries of family and friends for next month's celebration and best of all, only three weeks, three days and about 13 hours until Jody arrives...

Life is good!

Just a note...

2007-04-18T19:51:00.000+02:00

Although I'd been planning to post my blog of the adventures (or, some of them at least) of "Frat Boys Do France", in the light of Monday's tragic events at Virginia Tech, I feel it better to wait a while. That particular blog will be full of photos (as most used to be) of amazing young people (and one "mature" student) seeking to further their educations, advance their careers and simply make a difference in the world.

Yes, when that blog is finally posted (I appreciate your patience) it will show students, citizens of the world, much like the ones, not just we Americans lost on Monday but rather, young people who no doubt have already made a difference in our lives.

The "Frat Boys", lead by Chris, one of my favorite Dyers (heck, I adore ALL Dyers!) are intelligent, interesting (and interested) motivated and particularly polite young men. No doubt similar to the fine folks many grieving families and communities have now lost.

The thought of people, anywhere in the world, not being safe while at school (or, anywhere for that matter) saddens me beyond belief. And yet, we see it everyday, everywhere. When such violence hits American soil, we realize that no matter how blessed our powerful nation is, we are never free from harm.

Therefore, we must do all we can, daily, to let those we love and appreciate, know it, offer a kind word or smile to a stranger (we never know how that may brighten someone's day) and by all means, do everything in our power to keep our children safe.

Again, my heart breaks for the families, friends and communities of all of the victims, even those of the sad shooter. I can't comprehend how different and debilitating their lives must be only a few days after such horror.

I know America will heal, we have great strength in our diverse population, and yet, I know that nothing will make up for such loss.

Perhaps my future blog, of equally wonderful and maybe luckier students, will bring a smile to some reader's face.

In the meantime, whoever we revere as our "higher power", now is the time to send our sincerest thoughts to that entity to shed some comfort on those hurting most.

A Passionate Euoprean

2007-04-04T18:46:00.000+02:00

The International University of Monaco (IUM) is not only well recognized for its excellent educational opportunities but, also for fascinating extra curricular activities, some (but not enough) of which I've enjoyed. Most recently, over a delightful dinner with classmates and community folks alike (Cafe de Paris, Salon Bellevue, which I've managed to reserve for our 20th wedding anniversary!) we learned much during "An Evening with the Rt. Hon. John Gummer, MP".

Mr. Gummer, a former British Secretary of State for the Environment, spoke on "Global Warming and the Responsibility of Business Leaders". And, H.S.H. Prince Albert II of Monaco (who was kind enough to be introduced to each and every IUM student) was in attendance.

During his interesting and motivating program, Mr. Gummer reminded us that "carbon is the new currency", and, of the three "r"s namely; risk, reputation and reward. He spoke of how fast the market place moves and that we must accept such certainty of facts.

Global warming, and the responsibility of business leaders, is one of those "fundamental facts".

A responsible corporation must accept that the market place is more than competitors. The market place is concerned with climate change, and the business environment in which we work must take this fact into account. Or else, we won't be dealing in the market place.

In his very proper (and very British) manner of speaking, he assured us that “such responsibilities can't be ignored”. We must look at risk (globally) and recognize that organizations will act because of the pressures of climate change. The risk of not recognizing such pressures now is costly to a firm’s reputation and, future costs of compliance will be even greater

For example, the use of Hydrofluorocarbon (HFC, which is believed to cause harm to the ozone) in refrigeration is going to be banned (there are alternatives and many businesses are moving away from such refrigeration). Managers, et al, must realize that a new building with such an appliance won’t last 10 years. Therefore, since the risk of climate change is moving faster than businesses may accept, we must make a choice of compliance. People are beginning to be “seriously concerned about the future of their own planet and businesses that aren't as concerned are those that won't prosper”.

Leading businesses dealing with climate change are those “closest to the customer”. Those who sell direct to customers have taken the biggest steps. Tesco for example with their “club card” shows what customers are willing, or not, to buy.

And to think, my Casino “points” may be helping the environment as much as "rewarding" my budget.

For more information on this “passionate European” please visit: www.johngummer.org.uk

For more information on Tesco please visit:www.tesco.com

For more information on one of my favorite grocery stores here in France (and there are many!) please visit: www.groupe-casino.fr

My sincere thanks to the IUM Graduate Student Association, Robert, Tania, Yuhko and Jenni, for all of their hard work in making this event a success.

This "N" That

2007-03-15T00:48:00.000+01:00

According to the local paper, the tram will be in use this October. We already have trees (albeit, small ones) on our side of the street on our block of av Jean Medecin!

Carnival brought out music and flowers everywhere. Along the parade path we watched floats and musicians entertain the masses.
Arriving just a tad "tard", the festivities all but stopped as we were escorted across the street to our designated wheelchair section (so civilized).

Nice's "other" lovebirds joined us for lunch. With the pretty Patricia and Phil, we celebrated her birthday while enjoying the sunshine of the French Riviera.

Of all the fun folks we've met in Nice, Carole is at the top of the list. Thanks to our sweet Sharon (Jody's high-school sweetheart and a dear friend to this day) we enjoyed reading about Jinky, "Dog of a Hollywood Wife". On a lark, Ditto e-mailed Jinky (yes, she has her own Hotmail account!).Low and behold, Jinky's Mom was in town. We had a lovely lunch, learned lots about dogs (Carole and Kevin have two!) and found a new friend. How lucky are we?

Despite the sunshine, Ditto was a lil' "under the weather". Fortunately, it was nothing that 500 Euros couldn't fix.

She's doing great now and is a whopping 4.75 kilos (so much for a purse pup!).

Although Term IV is without finance, accounting and statistics, I seem to be just as busy therefore, the lack of blogs. But, I promise more details on a "Passionate European", meeting Prince Albert (c'est vraie!) and of course, "Frat Boys do France" (not to be missed!).

To fall in love with Jinky's story and to learn more about saving pets from the pound, please visit: www.hollywoodjinky.com.

Save the Date

2007-02-27T11:14:00.000+01:00

With three of the five terms successfully completed (yep, I'm 60% of the way through the Monaco MBA program!) I think it's safe to invite everyone to my graduation on Saturday, June 16th. Wow, how time flies when you're under stress, facing deadlines, learning more than you ever thought possible and, managing to have some fun along the way.

Grades for Term III will be known Monday, so, I hope to present Aunt Vee a few A+s for her 98th birthday. Far from the "all A+s" I'd like to have but, I'm thrilled to have come this far (I actually didn't panic on my finance final last week. In the past, my test anxiety has been equivalent to that of a person with severe stage fright. Fortunately, this former theater major has no idea what that feels like).

So, progress is being made in more ways than one.

Again, I remain in awe of my classmates, not just their 100% scores on finance quizzes or, their incredible interpretation of the classics (and what leadership skills we can take into the modern business world) but also their ability to bond together as one team.

Daily I hear students asking each other "how are you doing with that class?", "can I help you with your presentation?” Needless to say, I've been the grateful recipient of their kind concern regarding my academic efforts.

I'm proud to be on the down turn of this adventure. I'm thrilled to have learned so much and I'm especially grateful to be amongst a talented and diverse group of young people who will, no doubt, make the world a better place.

They've already made my perfect world better.

Enjoy the sunshine!

Set in Stone

2007-02-14T00:25:00.000+01:00

In just a few hours (actually, in just a few minutes here) it'll be Valentine's Day and our 17th wedding anniversary.
We often ask ourselves, where did the time go?. But, more often than that, we remark upon how fortunate we are, first to have met each other (at the right place and especially the right time!) married, maintained our close relationship (doesn't get any closer or supportive than an intensive MBA program!) and to simply enjoy our life.
Like so many other things in our blessed life, we know, with all our hearts, that we would never be where we are today (happy, healthy and half-way through my MBA program) without the love and support of our family and friends.
For that, and so much more, we give thanks and wish y'all a day, if not filled with flowers and champagne, at least one filled with love and gratitude, as we have for each of you.
Happy Valentine's Day,
Ella
Of course, some chocolate on this, or any day, never hurt anyone!

Chez Dyer, Marietta, Georgia, circa 1990

Half Way Home

2007-01-27T21:22:00.000+01:00

Despite being told otherwise (by several folks "in the know", former students and faculty alike) Term III is equally exhausting and perhaps even more of a challenge.

However, this is the halfway point.

Yep, I’m halfway through the Monaco MBA program (can you say unbelievable!) and on my way to graduation, June 16th. I do hope everyone takes note of this date change and, I apologize if anyone has already made travel arrangements (unfortunately, IUM had no option due to the venue).

The good news about being so very busy is that time is zooming by. And, with such things as the following formula starring me in the face almost daily, I’m still a little overwhelmed.

_
r a = r f + B a (r m - r f)***

where r f = risk free rate

B a = Beta of the security
_
r m = expected market return

Seems the “market reward-to-risk ratio” is effectively the market risk premium and by rearranging the above equation and solving for E (Ri), we obtain the Capital Asset Pricing Model or, CAPM.

Huh?

Now you know why I haven't blogged in a while.

Finance, along with supply chain management (so far my favorite class) entrepreneurialship, a supervised field study, international business law (my professor speaks “no less than 20” languages!) and values/ethics/culture (where I will present my ideas on change management via Hamlet), is keeping me rather occupied. And, as the self-proclaimed “Class Mom”, I’m also baking cookies, assisting the “kids” in any way I can (typically proofreading assignments and even sometimes encouraging all to “play nice”) and doing my best to keep our team (our class of 24 incredibly bright and diverse students) focused.

If only I could receive a “mark” for what I’ve learned from this talented group. I’m sure it would be an A+.

Thanks to all my readers who have been asking for an update. I promise to do my best and not wait so long next time. Take care, and if anyone wants to explain linear regression feel free to send me an e-mail.

*** No, that's not misplaced multiplication symbols. For some reason Blogspot wouldn't allow me to place the necessary mark over the r to indicate the "mean" of the "market return".

Happy New Year

2006-12-31T21:59:00.000+01:00

As the year draws to a close many of us may be moved to express ourselves, perhaps in ways we have not done so previously. However, as one known for the "gift of gab" (yet, less loquacious than some), seldom do I go without sharing my concerns, speaking my mind or even wading into a conversation for which I'm less than qualified to offer an opinion. And, as the years roll on, more rapidly now than ever, I'm even more inclined to tell you what you never wanted to know. "Je suis très désolée" (I am very sorry).

What I do want you to know (and hope that many of you already do so by my actions) is how grateful I am for our family and countless good friends all around the world.

I am also grateful to be an American.

I often ask myself why am I so lucky? I was born in an era and a country where I have extraordinary privileges and boundless opportunities. One need only look around the world (even easier to do today with news 24/7 and the internet) to see just how blessed most Americans are. I may not agree with all of the decisions of my Country's leaders yet, I won't complain too much as I'm not running for public office myself.

What I do agree with, and wish for all people, is the basics upon which America was founded, freedom of speech, the right to vote and so many other privileges we may take for granted, until we look at those less fortunate. I also agree that due to these gifts, many bestowed upon us without any effort on our part (I had no say in my grandparents' decisions to immigrate to the United States but, I'm grateful they did) we have even more to offer others.

Recently, Dr. Annan, formerly of the United Nations, quoted President Truman when he said "...the responsibility of the great states is to serve and not dominate the peoples of the world".

May 2007 be our opportunity to serve. Whether it be formally serving in a not for profit organization or simply being kind to someone in a crowded parking lot. May we seize any opportunity to share the many blessings we have with others.

Jody (et Ditto, le chien incroyable) joins me in wishing y'all a healthy and happy 2007 with plenty of opportunities to serve. Please keep in touch, forgive us when we fail to do the same and know that y'all are in our hearts and prayers.

Bonnee année y'all.

PS Yo, "Tapioca"...thanks for reading the blog but hey, throw us a bone once in a while. Your Yahoo address doesn't work neither does the phone number of the station. Send me an e-mail for cryin' out loud:)

Season's Greetings

2006-12-21T13:35:00.000+01:00

Under the fortuitous guidance of Dr. Crener and Dr. Ricard, the International University of Monaco has reached new heights. Recognized as one of the top 100 business schools in the world, we continue to thrive under their direction.

Equally supportive, and forward thinking, Susan and Boris (you'll recognize them from the previous blog) work diligently to create a "learning" environment for all students.

IUM's Christmas Ball began with greetings from classmates and faculty alike. Vanessa, imparts her native tongue to the undergrads and makes me proud to have a San Salvadorian "daughter". Daniel and Wesam (both "francophones")continue to assist leur mère américaine.

Kelly and Jez, one of the cutest couples of the evening, added some romance to the event. My fellow American always impresses me (as do ALL of my classmates!) with her steadfastness. Thank you for your shining example.

Readers will remember Gaurav (the "G-Man") from VECS last term. Here, he shares his enchanting charm with Yasuko, another amazing team player.

And our favorite "Viking", Erik, cuts the rug with Chanterria (y'all will remember this fabulous fellow American also from VECS).

Even King Wlad (my Jody approved "date") gives the festivities his okay. Le Cafe de Paris, Monte Carlo proved to be the perfect host place for such a celebration. We dined on "fois gras aux artichauts en salede, gigot d'agneau roit" and free flowing wine. What a way to start the holiday season.

And, what a way to terminate Term Two... a toast to all (would that wide mouth glass in the photos's forefront be my scotch?). We did it y'all. Two down, three to go, "youpie"!

Of course, no course at IUM is complete without a personal audience with Dr. Laurent Anselmi, Advisor to the Cabinet of H.S.H., the Sovereign Prince. Yep, Yasuko, Kenichi and I had a meeting (at "Palais Princier") with my future professor to discuss the legalities (and tax ramifications) of starting a business in Monaco. Dr. Anselmi is dedicated to his prnicipality and his students sharing his coveted time (and, excellent English!). We look forward to working with him.

Two of my favorite "Catholic classmates", Wesam and Joan are simply delightful. The future Dr. Younan and former London Soliciter, graciously greet me each and every day, always asking how my studies are going and offering a helping hand. I thank both of their Moms for being parents.

Alas, this long awaited (and ever so long in itself) blog, is about to come to a close, until I return to America (demain!). What does this strugglin' student want from Père Noël? Besides world peace and good grades perhaps just a finished tramway. Looks like at least one of my wishes is on its way. Work continues daily on our street and, as you can see here, on Place Massena where the future tram was recently on display. I can't wait.

Views of av Jean Medecin from both ends. Danny, can you see some progress?

Perhaps it was the lack of a chimney but, I think Santa paid a visit to "Those Dyers", via Zara.

Alors, Jody joins me (et Ditto, le chien incroyable, aussi) in wishing all un Joyeux Noël et une bonne année.

A bientôt y'all.

For more information (and, there is so much more on my unique University!) please visit: www.monaco.edu.

And, for festive fun please see: www.visitmonaco.com. After all, no visit to Monaco is "complete" without at least a drink at this enchanting restaurant next to the grand casino. Hmm, perhaps a venue for future celebrations including graduation?

Thanksgiving and then some...

2006-12-02T10:49:00.000+01:00

Thanksgiving was almost the same for those of us who celebrated in France. We had two turkeys, plenty of cranberry sauce, stuffing, pumpkin pies and, bongo drums (mais oui!).

Gathering my fellow Americans from the International University of Monaco, Holy Trinity and Nice in general, we celebrated in style, Cameroon style.

Here, Kira and some helpful undergrads assist me in the kitchen.

More undergrads, Remy (from France) will be studying at Shorter College in Georgia next year (small world). And Blaise (from New York) plans to be president some day. He alreay has my vote and his parents, Carol and Bob, my thanks for such a delightful son.

Kenichi ("Ken") and Michael (my fellow MBA classmates) join us. Ken is one of IUM's hardest working students and one of my favorite team mates. Michael, our class "representative", continues to look out for all of us (and he's rather good with the dishes too).

Nancy, my "twin", served up some southern hospitality. Damien, originally from North Carolina, celebrated his birthday a few days early.

No celebration is complete without long time friends. Vanessa teaches Spanish at IUM and of course, Charhnaz and Tarik add to the fun.

Natalie takes a lesson.

Dragon popped in for a moment and of course, King Wlad and Marti were welcomed guests.

The kitchen is always a favorite place. Wladimir, Said, Jean-Philippe, Marina and more gather to see what's cookin'.

Boris, the associate dean of IUM chats with fellow American Jennifer and Frederic.

While Patricia and others get a dance lesson from Dady Mimbo.

Who doubles as a drum teacher too. Readers recognize Dady Mimbo from previous blogs where I've said before, we're never having a party without you! The beautiful brunette looking on is Susan, my co-host and fellow former resident of West Covina, California (can you say small world?).

Aziz also stopped by to give his American mom a hug.

Who is that glove clad helper? Must be Michael, a former Naval officer who served in Iraq. We at IUM are blessed to have him safe and with us.

A week or so before the festivities Jan and Robert came by while visiting Nice. Robert may look familiar, he's Danny's nephew (strong genes in that family)hugs his beautiful bride of two and a half years.

King Wlad's harem.

While studying one evening Wladimir called and said he was passing by on his way to Vieux Nice. Of course, he had a few friends with him. Lucky for me I was able to secure him for my "Jody approved" date tonight.

We'll be going to Cafe de Paris, in Monte Carlo, to attend IUM's Christmas Ball.

That, promises to be a fun blog.

Term 2, Week 2

2006-11-18T00:52:00.000+01:00

Where to begin? Not even sure when my last blog was written.

I do know that since then, I’ve already “enjoyed” quizzes in both finance and accounting, analyzed Tiffany & Company’s financial statements (with 15 ratios, my favorite is the debt-to-equity), analyzed two cases and one journal paper (the latter was rather “dry” to say the least!) covered five chapters in accounting, four in finance, three in marketing and three in knowledge management, delivered two presentations and began an outline for a supervised field service report.

Some things remain the same, wonderful professors and the heavy workload as previously mentioned. The good news is (and there is plenty) I know my way around a little better and I’ve made some lovely friends along the way (I’m known as everyone’s "American Mom”).

The really good news is I made some “As” last term (not “straight-As” but, I’ll take what I can get!) and, I’m co-hosting a traditional Thanksgiving dinner for 25 on Sunday (finally a task in my comfort zone. But, don’t worry Pop, that won’t interfere with homework).

Yes, the days are long but fascinating (today I was up at 0500 and am still working after midnight). I remain in awe of my accomplished classmates. I’m learning as much from them as from the faculty.

God bless Jody, family, friends and caffeine.

Looking back, here are photos from the long, lost, last blog:

The breathtaking colors of Atlanta's fall season greeted me upon my return.

Tech honored my "faithful fan" status with a "w".

And, Aunt Vee continues to encourage my efforts (later, she donned a baseball cap from IUM to remind me of her support. I plan to share that photo with my school). A former educator herself, Virgin Queen Dyer Doyle poses with great-nephew Dustin and niece Debbie.

Aunt Vee, I promise to give you more "As" for your 98th birthday this March!

Cocktails with Clara (Lorie and Tom's 11th wedding anniversary gift) was a refreshing "repose" during my short but appreciated break.

Jeffri, a huge factor in my support system, cuddles Clara. Wonderful womenn in my already charmed life.

Speaking of wonderful women, multiple generations and, all around fun folks, Natalie and Yvette graced us with a brief visit. Like me, Natalie (an IUM student in the Masters of Luxury Goods and Services program -- she already has her MBA -- can you say "over-achiever"?) needed to collect her "long stay" visa.

I'm happy to report, that like me, she has her proper papers.

My return to France was familiar for more than one reason. I appreciate the mild weather, love the wine (so, what else is new?) and realize that at least some progress is being made on our famous French "rue" av Jean Medecin.

I hope to post Thanksgiving thoughts, and photos, before Christmas!

Stay tuned,
JC (Jody's "co-ed")

As promised...

2006-11-01T12:08:00.000+01:00

...this blog is from "Hotlanta" where my four-day trip has been wonderful.

Jody picked Ditto and me up from the airport and we went straight to the Georgia Tech (versus Miami) game. Ditto and I must have been good luck for our favorite team. Tech was down until we arrived. Although I was expecting the award for traveling the farthest to attend the game, I'm just glad we won (and Georgia lost!).

Next, we enjoyed a beautiful drive to Dahlonega for lunch with Aunt Vee. At nearly 98 years old, this pillar of our family and community is doing well. And, like her younger brother Pop, she adores Ditto, asking to hold our pudgy pup.

We remain thankful for family and friends who provide excellent care as well as companionship. Cousins Debbie and Dustin and family friend Dianne Adams (Aunt Vee's personal angel) rarely leave her side, tending to her every wish. Merci y'all!

From lunch we high-tailed it to "Cocktails with Clara"...our dear friends' newest granddaughter was making her debut. What a treat it was to visit with everyone (not to mention "sip" the 12 year-old Dewar's, yum) toast this new Tech fan and share my "menopause MBA" stories with all.

Monday was the big "long-stay visa" day. Finally, I am the proud holder of this most coveted travel document. Of course, the French bureaucracy (aka: "scotch rouge", red tape) isn't over. I now have 90 days to obtain my "carte de sejour"...Fortunately; I have Nadine from IUM on my side.

Monday continued to be delightful as we welcomed Natalie, my fellow IUM student, and her darlin' Mom Yvette. Like me, Natalie (originally from North Carolina) had a rendez-vous with the French Consulat. Our visit on this side of the pond was enjoyable, but too short, as we discussed school, Thanksgiving and shopping (all the important topics).

Like Jody, friends and family alike continue to be most supportive. Assuring me that my "B" in accounting is excellent (especially for a rusty ol' student like me) and that "it'll get easier".

From the bottom of my heart I thank y'all.

After a few appointments, (I think we'll call them "vanity" rendez-vous) numerous trips to Kroger for Thanksgiving supplies, (both transportable and tasty) and addressing 300 holiday cards, it's time to return to France. I'm eager to tear into Term II with more organizational tools and developing friendships. However, I'm heartbroken to be leaving Jody and Ditto for the next few weeks. I know that my 12 - 14 hour days will pass by quickly but, I'll still be counting the hours until they join me in Nice (perhaps in time to help me cram for finals).

A bientôt y'all.

PS Photos will be uploaded from the French flat as that's where the technology to do so remains, sitting on the countertop with my contacts and phonebook (somehow forgot those!).

The VECS' Raiders

2006-10-27T20:28:00.001+02:00

Are we happy or what?

My fellow classmates and I smile as we finish the first of five arduous terms at IUM. We survived statistics, accounting, economics, human factors engineering and values/ethics/culture (VECS) courses. Topping off the term was today's 30 minute presentation on Grameen Bank.

This talented group made me look good as we discussed how and why "banking for the poor" works.

Mark, originally from Macedonia, could take Tony Robbins' place on the public speaking circuit. Accomplised for his tender years, he and his French Fiancee Caroline, are both excelling in school.

Gaurav, a former auditor and, perhaps one of the biggest Johnny Cash fans around, continues to impress us with his professionalism.

And, should you ever, ever need a "closer", call on my fellow American Chanterria. She'll get the job done, just like she did today.

Bravo y'all. I enjoyed working with you on our VECS "final" and look forward to more group projects togeter. Enjoy your break, for we're faced with finance, more accounting and a few other delightful classes, very soon.

For more information on Grameen Bank (winner of the 2006 Nobel Peace Prize!) please check out www.grameenbank.org.

Stay tuned, as my next blog will be from Hotlanta!

One Down, Four to Go!

2006-10-22T21:34:00.000+02:00

Last Friday saw the finish of my accounting final, finally!

Dr. Hosseini was an amazing professor, brilliant and eager to show us the beauty of the "landscape" of business. With this knowledge, we are better equipped to review and evaluate financial statements of any business.

Taking time from his personal life to make certain we understood the material covered in the first half of our term together, he spent a weekend with us (and my chocolate chip cookies!) going over the basics, even though they were not on the final. This is the caliber of professors we have come to expect and appreciate at IUM.

Now, for my "final four"....Economics, human factors engineering, statistics and values/ethics/culture.

And, for my final four terms. Yep, one final down, four to go. One term down, four to go.

No blog regarding school, or, my charmed life, is complete without mentioning Jody, the world's best cheerleader and husband. God bless my supportive spouse who rescued me from a first term of near chaos.

Although I've spent plenty of time in Nice by myself, this has been different. I've felt connected to my classmates and our common goal of academic achievement but, I've also felt completely out of my element.

Especially when it came to the well forewarned workload or, overload, of the MonacoMBA.

Despite plenty of warning and feeling rather confident in my strong work ethic, at times, I was like a panic-stricken person unable to find the exit door of a burning building.

Then, Jody (and Ditto) arrived and my life resumed some sense of normalcy, not to mention positive structure. Whether it was filing my daily dose of paperwork, helping me grasp the concept of a binomial distribution or, just reminding me that this MBA is purely voluntarily, Jody managed to calm me down and help me find my way back to productivity.

Tired but thrilled to be in the competitive company of my classmates and awe inspired by my professors, I'm focused on what I'll continue to learn the next four terms as well as my graduation on June 23rd (but hey, who's counting?).

Before then though, I'm looking forward to "cocktails with Clara". Georgia Tech's newest fan arrived just a few days ago and is kind enough to invite me and thousands of our closest, mutual friends for a drink and her grandparents home in Atlanta.

I know I'm gonna love this gal!

Stay tuned, I may not give my grades (some are absolutely embarrassing!) but, I'll definitely let you know what's going on in the lovely land of a menopause MBA student.

Ciao for now (must pack my jump drive, stats book and bags under my eyes for class tomorrow, all of which begins in a few short hours!).

A "United Nations" Birthday

2006-10-14T23:33:00.000+02:00

Despite my harrowing scolastic schedule (not to mention my God-awful grades!) I managed to gather a few gal pals together to help Jody celebrate his 59th. Continuing IUM's appreciation for diversity, we celebrated with two Italians, three Iranians, one Romainian, one San Salvadorian, two Brits, one French and a token American...

Wanda, one of our oldest (okay, you know what I mean) and dearest friends, greeted the birthday boy with gifts and giggles. Speaking of gifts, this young lady has been one in our lives for the past six years.

We have the ravishing Rachida to thank for my school struggles. It was just last spring when she introduced me to a student at IUM...need I say more? Well, perhaps I could ask "where's the scotch"!

Charhnaz, our favorite "legal eagle", took off from the "tribunal" to share in the festivities.

Dalia, one of our newest friends and, favorite moms, continues to make us smile.

What is a birthday without beautiful babes to help you celebrate? Jody will probably never, ever, know.

Thanks to our dear friends, Mary, Fran (who gets the award for traveling the farthest, all the way from England!), Nancy (my twin), Rachida, Flavia (next time, we expect a special rendition of "Joyeux Anniversaire" in all five of the languages she speaks), Mary, Nilou (thanks for the cake!), Vanessa (our darling daughter from El Salvador who just happens to keep an eye on me while teaching at IUM), Dalia and Wanda. How blessed are we?

Happy birthday Sweetie,

YWFL

Mon Coeur

2006-10-04T08:23:00.000+02:00

Tony left his in San Francisco and, I leave my "temp tats" on the rocks of the local beaches but, my heart is always with Jody.

Fortunately, he and Ditto will be here soon.

Guess my tan will be fading as the summer sun does this time of year. That's okay, I don't have much beach time anyway. Neither does Didi, my Italian son "I never had". During the summer months we often meet at the "office" and solve the problems of the world.

Lucky me, I graduate in June, there's always next summer.

More Follow Up

2006-09-30T08:11:00.000+02:00

Readers will remember (especially since I've blogged so little lately) that there has been some follow up to my story of "The Great Heist".

Recently (or, so I think, my days and nights are consumed with school. I barely know what time it is anymore!) I received this follow up. And, I hope by posting a condensed version of it that my reader (merci, c'était très gentil de vous) will provide me with an email address (which I'll keep private) so we may continue to communicate.

Regard:

Hello! Thanks for reading my comment and answering the questions. I have my English dictionary on my knees and I will try to keep writing in English, I hope it will be clear.

You want to know the political reasons of why the "de Vathaire" affair was known only 2 months after the fact. It was because Mr de Vathaire had done a file on his boss, Mr Dassault. Serge Dassault was very close to "de Gaulle" and the people around. The leader of the Gaullist party (RPR) during the presidential election in 1974 was Jacque Chirac (the election eventually was won by the UDF leader, Mr Giscard Destaing).

Mr Dassault, via Dassault Aviation (the firm de Vathaire was working for) had given money to support RPR and J. Chirac's campaign. He had no right to give such money, and did it in non legal ways. Mr de Vathaire knew it, and put it on a hidden file.

Jacques Chirac, the prime minister since 1974, knew the affair in the day of the robbery, July 6th, 1976, and keeps it secret until the end of august. But as he decided to resign as prime minister on august 25th, he gave information to "Le Point" and "France Soir" (both owned by Dassault...), to embarrass the President Giscard Destaing.

That's why there was a 2 month delay between the affair and newspapers titles. That was the political reasons. But as it is difficult for me to explain, I hope it was clear! If not, just ask, I'll try another way....

Dear Reader, I'm asking! Please provide me with your email (it'll remain confidential, je promets) so we may continue this fascinating exchange and perhaps other discussions.

Take care,
Madame Dyer
PS Bravo! Votre anglais écrit est très bon.

Week Two

2006-09-23T21:31:00.000+02:00

Greetings!

Well, week two was better than week one (although my "hair do" continues to be a "hair don't"!). I didn't get caught in the rain in sandals, I did get 100 points on my accounting homework and quiz (thanks to some great group dynamics) and, I managed to even find some time for this very brief blog.

Some readers have asked about my class, the "mix", to be exact. Perhaps this photo is a good "sampling" (statistics on the brain).

During integration at Cap Esterel a few of us decided to walk around the lovely grounds. I captured this photo of some of my classmates. Just a partial representation of IUM's diversity is shown here by students from Japan, Switzerland, Russia, Taiwan, Norway, Canada and the US.

Of course, our time in Cap Esterel wasn't all work. We did manage to play a little. Good thing, since it would be another two weeks before we had time to take a breath, much less have a cocktail!

The marvelous Mathilde is hoisted to the pedestal where she belongs. Thanks Madamemoiselle for arranging our wonderful retreat. I promise to provide you with some blue, white and red "pomp pomps", you're the perfect cheerleader!

Like Sam (of the Luxury Goods segment of our MBA program) we're all wondering what Eric, our favorite "viking" (and, a super team player)is doing...

More later, je promets (I promise).

Greetings from "JC"

2006-09-17T20:48:00.000+02:00

Forgive me readers for I have slacked. Well, not really. As you can see from the beautiful scenery, I've been busy. Yes, this was the setting for my "integration" into the MonacoMBA program (I know, stinks to be me). I spent three lovely days (and one rather sleepless night) getting to know both the graduate and undergraduate students.

The supportive staff and professors were with us as we began our year together. Seminars and lectures were informative and breaking into groups to fulfill extemporaneous projects or assignments was extremely beneficial.

As excited as I have been by my return to school (even "fretting" at times) my overall feeling after our retreat is a profound sense of humility. Needless to say, the students of IUM are impressive and I am humbled by their experiences and previous educations. Also, I'm eager to work with each of them so I may benefit from their knowledge and personalities.

As I write this, I have completed not only the orientation/integration but, also an entire week of class, which began like this...

Monday, September 11th, awoke at 6:00 AM after a rather restless night. Remembered the victims of the tragic events five years ago as well as those suffering throughout the world. Called upon the Universe to create a positive, productive, protected and pleasant day. Enjoyed (and, I don't use that term lightly!) accounting, economics, statistics and human factors classes. Departed IUM after 6:00 PM, awaited the bus (two passed me by because they were "plein", full) and finally, arrived at Chez Dyer "environs" (around) 7:30 PM....a long day.

Just think, a few hours from now, I'll be doing the same only this time with some completed homework assignments (can you say NO social life?).

Stay tuned, blogs may be few and far between but heartfelt, as I strive to share this privileged experience with y'all.

A bientôt,
JC (Jody's Co-ed)

Feedback

2006-09-01T11:25:00.000+02:00

One of the great things about Blogspot, perhaps this is the case with other blog sites, "je ne sais pas" (I don't know) is the opportunity for readers to post comments or send emails. (Pictured is what was tossed from the bank on the 30th anniversary of the event.)

I awoke to the following response and found it fascinating. First, in case you missed the referenced post (July 19, 2006) The Great Heist, you may want to review it along with the Reader's abbreviated comment.

"hello,

are you sure about the fact that jean kay was in the team?
he is (still) wanted by the police but for the "de Vathaire" affair. Jean Kay and de Vathaire have stolen 8 millions francs at a Paris BNP bank at the same time, early july 1976."

"You can read what I have written : http://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jean_Kay and also http://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Affaire_de_Vathaire

(I am just curious with that guy, but not a fan!! what a disgusting man!!)"

Posted by Anonymous to Nice In Nice at 9/01/2006 10:07:39 AM

Dear Reader,

Yes, I would like you to explain the political reasons to me as well as thank you for reading my blog and making a comment. No, I'm not sure of anything rearding the rather infamous Mr. Kay. But, I'm sure that my American readers would agree with me, our reporter Geraldo Rivera would enjoy this mystery.

Merci de votre email. Je lirai ce que vous avez écrit mais je dois employer mon dictionnaire français. La prochaine fois, si vous voulez, inclus votre email.
C'est une histoire très intéressante.

Bonne journée,
Madame Dyer

My New Hangout?

2006-08-31T13:03:00.000+02:00

In just a few days school will begin. I guess this will be my new hangout. I still hope to have wine in the garden* with the congregation each Sunday, a weekly yoga class and monthly visits to The Little Sisters of the Poor. But, I know late nights at L'Escalier** are "fini" (finished).

Fortunately for me, Madame Campbell, a former "avocate" (attorney) who learned to speak her third language (an oriental one at that!) at 80 years old, volunteers here weekly. Like my family and friends, she too thinks it's wonderful that I am returning to school.

Besides the incredible facilities at IUM, not to mention the supportive staff and faculty, I think this will be a good place for me to study.

Now to remember the Dewey Decimel System...

* The English Library is located behind the garden of Holy Trinity at 11 rue de la Buff, Nice.

**Pub L'Escalier is located at 10 rue Raoul Bosio, 06000 Nice, 04 93 92 64 39 (Be certain to say hi to our friend Dragon at the front door, at 7'2", he's easy to spot and one of the kindest folks in France.)

Why Am I Smiling?

2006-08-27T08:03:00.000+02:00

I'm off to school! Well, almost. Actually, I'm headed to "orientation" soon at Cap Esteral (Jody jokes it's the original "Club Med"!). That should be a very enjoyable time, meeting more of the staff and faculty of IUM as well as my fellow classmates (no doubt I'll be the oldest, most mature is always in question).

Besides the benefits of team building, the time spent will be good given classes begin the 11th (picture me in Accounting, Global Management, Marketing Processes and Communication Skills, Monday through Friday!) and last until the 27th of October (wonder where I can get an "overwhelmed MBA student" costume for Halloween?). It gets better with Financial Accounting and Reporting, Introduction to Strategic Thinking, Data and Models, Managerial Economics and Organizational Processes.....YIKES!

So, send your positive thoughts my way (how embarrassing would it be to get bad grades?), be prepared for those communiqués, which may be coming your way, especially if you have a knack for finance. And, in the event you don't see regular blogs, not to worry, I'm just doing my homework, hoping to keep everyone proud of me.

A bientôt y'all!

Félicitations Amis Français!

2006-08-17T02:00:00.000+02:00

Congratulations French Friends!

Summer is such a happy time. Whether it be the beautiful weather, the plethora of fresh fruits and vegetables to choose from (not to mention the lovely chilled rose wines being served) or the many life events, which take place during this, my favorite time of year. There is much to celebrate in these warm months of summer. Here are two milestones we've enjoyed with dear French friends.

First, lovebirds Laetitia and Laurent, began the season with their delightful nuptials. Anyone who knows us knows how we've cherished our friendship with the lovely Laetitia for years (see blog archives: April 19th, 2006 ). Laurent, we are thrilled that you share our admiration for this amazing young lady and we know y'all will live happily ever after.

From marital bliss to babies....

Last July I had the privilege of attending Sandrine and Bruno's beautiful wedding in Paris (see blog archives: July 29th & 30th, 2005). What a treat it was to receive Bruno's call (on Daddy's birthday) that Arno had arrived.

Again, we remain in awe of our blessed lives which include friends throughout the world, especially in France.

Félicitations y'all! (Y'all, "Southern" for something like "tout les vous".)

IUM

2006-08-09T09:30:00.000+02:00

It all began years ago when I experienced the thrill of education, the thrill of setting a goal and reaching it. First, it was my Associates Degree from Los Angeles City College, then my Bachelor of Business Administration from Kennesaw State University. Of course, spending the last 17 years with one of Georgia Tech's best students (and a Harvard grad!) has increased my thirst for knowledge.

I first learned of the MBA program at the International University of Monaco (IUM) from Alex, via my dear friend Rachida (owe you big for this one girl!). Jody, Alex, Rachida and I discussed the school, its program and his project last April. I then met some of the staff, discussed my potential return to the academic world with absolutely anyone who would listen, and submitted my application.

Waiting, albeit not too long, has been consumed with the usual family fun. However, daily, I have visualized myself, in class, studying (at times struggling) and eventually being one of the few students to graduate from such a prestigious school.

When first considering this possibility I was overwhelmed with the tremendous support I received from all who would listen to my enthusiastic description of the program. "It's rated among the top 100 programs in the world,” I screeched at times. Or, "It's only 10 months, I can do that". Of course, there are many reasons for my excitement, not the least the wonderful impression the staff and faculty I've met so far, has made. The class is limited to about 40 students, on average from 20 - 25 different countries.

As my dear friend "Lady Jane" says, "It just sang to me".

Now, I hope to make all those who have encouraged me to "go for it", proud. And, I want to give special thanks to Jane, Tom, Cathleen, Patricia, Phil, Ginna, all the kids in the family ("you can do it Auntie Ella") and, my amazing in-laws. "You can't go wrong with education", Pop assured me when I told him of my plans.

Cindy’s poem may sum up this outstanding summer (not that the season, or the fun is by any means over):

Dear Ella, Jody and Ditto Too
It was so much fun visiting you
All the days literally flew
Your savoir-fare and your do and dare
Makes visiting Nice a big love affair
Now you are trying a new terrain
Monaco will never ever be the same
Much success in each new class
Be sure not to tell the teacher to kiss my a--
I am glad that Christ is in your life
And when we end this worldly strife
May we meet on God’s heavenly shore
And be together forever more

And, of course I thank Jody.

The first person in a wheelchair to graduate from both Georgia Tech (not once, but twice!) and Harvard has encouraged me all the way. From the first time we met he told me I could achieve my dreams including that of earning an MBA.

Thanks Babe, I guess it takes one to know one.

For more information on IUM see: www.monaco.edu.

"M'excusez-vous...

2006-08-02T15:19:00.000+02:00

mais savez-vous s'il y a un problème avec les taxis aujourd'hui?" (Excuse me, but do you know if there is a problem with the taxis today?)

As we bid Mom and Danny "au revoir" we waited at the corner taxi stand. With the signature Mercedes Benz cabs usually lined up through out the day it seemed rather odd to be waiting more than 15 minutes once the service was called.

Knowing that a long day was ahead I didn't want the morning to start off behind so after placing my third call to the taxi service I decided more than my awful French was needed to get these two to the airport on time.

Dashing across the street (dodging cars and construction crap) I entered the small but welcoming lobby of Hotel Univers and asked if they could call a cab for me (or at least that's what I think I said, who knows, I could have been requesting a recipe for beef bourguignonne!). "Mais oui" (but yes) replied the ever-helpful young man behind the counter.

In a matter of minutes Cindy and Danny were safely ensconced in a comfortable cab to the "aéroport". Ditto and I then returned home where I whipped up quick a gesture of my appreciation, a dozen chocolate chip cooks (now known weekly at Holy Trinity, seasonally by the "Pompiers" and enjoyed more than once at my school, Alliance Française).

Fortunately, I had the ever helpful "cookies moelleux" mix (by Alsa, makers of many wonderful products) on hand. "C'est réussi en 15 min., juste avec un oeuf!" (ready in just 15 min. just with one egg) as the box boasts. I delivered this small thank you to Jean-Michel at the front desk and assured him that Hotel Univers is our new Hotel de la Fontainne*.

Conveniently located to Chez Dyer (but isn't everything?) this lovely three star hotel offers busy travelers, and even locals like me, wonderful hospitality. For more information please see: www.hotelunivers-nice.com.

*For years, Hotel de la Fontaine (www.hotel-fontaine.com), its owners and staff, was our "base" in Nice. We lived there while we were buying our flat, hosted a party for close to 50 folks to celebrate our good fortune and remain close to many we met there because of our repeated visits.

Alas, that's another blog.